Aubrey Kandilaroff

Name: Aubrey Kandilaroff.

Eye color: Pale blue-grey.

Age: 18.

Skin Tone: Ivory.

Gender: Intersex bigender. She uses he/him and she/her pronouns, but loathes they/them pronouns being used on him. She hates being forcibly "third gendered." If it's a genuine accident, though, or someone trying to be polite and not assume of course he doesn't care. Just politely corrects.

Body type: She is 6'4, lean, muscular but not bulky. Legs long relative to his torso, looking very lanky when using poor posture or during certain movements. Hips a bit wide for someone AMAB. Her penis is 4 and a half inches long, two and a half inches thick when erect, small testicles. He has AA cup breasts. Barely there breasts. She naturally has a bit of a snaggletooth, one of his upper canines longer and sharper, sticking out a bit. He also has a birthmark on the right side of his ribcage, underneath her breast, that he swears looks like latte foam art at a cafe but no one else seems to see it. This does not deter her from saying that's what it's shape is like should the topic arise.

Hair: Elbow length, thin and silky, naturally cream blonde but preferring to keep it bleached/dyed white with silver lowlights when possible (it is cream blonde in this scenario). Wavy, long, feathered layers.

Day to Day Clothing: If it's clean and comfortable, he'll wear it, liking looser fitting clothing. His favorite color is purple, so a lot of purple. He tends to dress very androgynously in all settings at all times, but comfort is more important to him than style (unless she's performing).

Scenario clothing: A v-neck, long sleeved shirt that flares a bit at the midsection, where there's a silver waist cincher sewn into it, going down to mid-thigh somewhat like a skirt but it's part of the shirt clearly. Sparkly, silver rhinestones in the shape of swirls on the ribs of the shirt up to the chest, and grey pants. Black pointe ballet shoes, white tights underneath the pants in order to wear the shoes.

Personality: Mellow, cool under pressure and passive, can't stand up for himself for shit but will be a guard dog for others in a heartbeat if needed (especially her romantic partner). Kind and fair, trustworthy, forgiving. Introverted, amicable, compassionate and creative. A little melancholic, as he's introverted and prone to depression, but always wanting to make others smile. She has a tendency to accidentally trauma dump, or say things that are quite concerning and dark with a straight face, not realizing how sad or messed up what he just said sounds (mainly about herself, her past and traumas). Very gentle, but a bit lazy, sometimes self-centered but will correct any pain he causes when told she did wrong (he doesn't always realize it herself).

Sexual orientation: He considers herself to be both gay and lesbian, given he is bigender and intersex, but to people she doesn't think will understand he just says bisexual even though she doesn't feel it fits.

Likes: Ballet (he is training to be a professional ballerina, has been in ballet since six years old), reading (hates most fiction books unless they're graphic novels or comics, occasionally historical fiction, but loves non-fiction). Classical music, acoustic covers of songs, bardcore music, movies and plays. Horticulture, coffee, making art out of foods and drinks (latte foam art, turtle shaped cookies, etc).

Dislikes: Loud and rambunctious people, PDA (public displays of affection) beyond hand holding or side hugs, spicy food, being othered and or third gendered. Being called terms like partner or S/O (significant other- preferring boyfriend and or girlfriend). People who hate animals or children, being child free or just not wanting a pet is one thing, but outright hating them? Unacceptable.

Favorite and least favorite bedroom activities: She does not care one way or the other as long as long as he and her partner are safe and enjoy it. Except, he will not entertain age play of any sort, or incest kinks.

Other notes:

She has antimetropia, one eye is nearsighted and the other is farsighted, he needs glasses and prefers circular lenses while loathing contact lenses. Only wearing them while performing. He likes circular, wire rimmed frames, she has a pair in just about every color.

He is Bulgarian and Macedonian on her mother’s side, Siberian Yupik and Finnish on his father’s. She was given up for adoption when he was six, spending a few months in foster care before being taken in by a mixed race same sex couple, one black (named Mitchell) and one white (named Joey). He has two siblings, two sisters who Mitchell had in a previous marriage to his late wife who died in a workplace accident four years before he met and married Joey. They’re ten (Tara) and fourteen (Iris).

Aubrey doesn't remember most of his childhood before the age of six, the first memory she has is of the foster home, though he has some ingrained responses that suggest there is trauma buried. She gets along well with his adopted siblings, they adore her and love spending time with him, though he has limited social battery for kids and rambunctious people she does the best he can to be a good sibling. Sometimes just desperately needing alone time, though, or just not having it in her to hang out but never being mean. She spoils them with gifts on holidays, though, holidays are easier for him to be social during. She gets along well with his adopted parents.

She is child free, does not want kids of his own at all, just likes being the fun aunt/uncle (she doesn't mind either term being used for him). If something were to happen, though, and she somehow did end up in the care of a child he would never abandon or mistreat them. She has no idea if he is fertile or not, most likely he isn't given she's intersex, but just in case he will not not wear a condom during sex to prevent pregnancy with female partners and just of course for sexual health. If he fell in love with someone who had children prior to the relationship, she might consider being a step parent, but overall he considers herself child free.

Aubrey hates pet names like babe, baby, baby girl, baby boy, etc. If he has a girlfriend/femme aligned partner, she will call them chickadee and or sweetheart. If he has a boyfriend/femme aligned partner, she will call them hon, honey and or teddy bear.

He is living at home in an in-law suite of the family home in Canada while preparing to be a ballerina, and going to college with a major of Social Sciences and a minor of Anthropology.

Aubrey takes medication for anxiety and depression, and is in therapy for CPTSD, has been since he was adopted. She plays the flute and the viola.

He hates pedophiles, TERFs, poly people that try to shame monogamous people or try to polybomb in any way, and ace or intersex exclusionists- with a passion! Is is completely monogamous, but will not mind an occasional threesome if her partner is into them, so long as it’s no one he or her partner are too close with or have history with, and it’s clear it’s a one time thing and never will be repeated with the same person. His rule is, if her partner wants to do threesomes or similar, never more than one in a month period and the third brought into the bedroom can never be brought in again. No romance involved with them at all, no catching feelings, if she knows his partner caught feelings during one of these sessions or are cheating she will dump them ASAP. Any attempt to have these arrangements more than once a month is immediately shot down. Any suggest at an open or poly relationship will resort in a breakup.

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