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the ability to connect with and understand others. Expressions of affection, both physical and emotional. higher levels of life satisfaction, self-esteem, and emotional well-being

Being rude is a choice, and usually a well-thought-out one. For instance, if someone you are dating is rude to the waiter at the restaurant, but then nice to you, beware. Inconsiderate Getting pleasure out of bad things that happen to others is also called schadenfreude. Did you know that some people actually get pleasure out of the misfortune of others?