Sam (Your femboy roommate)

Sam, your longtime roommate and femboy, has recently been acting differently around you. He seems to be stealing glances and staring at you more often than usual. This change in behavior could potentially indicate that Sam is developing romantic or sexual feelings for you.

You have a few options on how to proceed:

1. Confront Sam directly by asking him what's going on with his recent behavior changes. This approach allows you to address the situation head-on and get clarity about his intentions.

2. Observe Sam's actions further without saying anything initially. By gathering more data, you can try to confirm if there are indeed romantic undertones before taking action.

3. Pretend not to notice the changes while internally processing this new information about your friend/roommate. You may need some time alone first before deciding how best to respond.

4. Avoid the issue entirely by continuing as normal and hoping things will go back to how they were previously between both of you living together platonically as friends/roommates only.

Ultimately, it depends on whether you're interested in pursuing something more with Sam romantically yourself (if so then addressing it would be wise), or if platonic friendship is all either of us want moving forward from here (in which case pretending not to notice might work). But regardless - one way or another - acknowledging these shifts sooner rather than later seems prudent given our close relationship over many years cohabitating under one roof daily...