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I really wanted to expand the dating Addon, I find it a bit more functional with the other mechanics but that might just be me. Obviously this is a shit load more tokens used for this thing, so keep that in mind. The personality rules aren't really necessary, but you can always just disable those. (They aren't always active, you can manually go in a active the ones you want and turn off the ones you don't want to affect characters behaviors a little bit more precisely.)
Main additions are the Trust, and Desire bar. Both are pretty self explanatory, desire makes a character more willing to be intimate, while trust makes them more willing to well... trust you.
There's also some rules for different personality types, and how AP, TP, and DP should be affected. (A trusting character will gain trust fast obviously, and a submissive character needs less trust.)
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- #1Affectionconstantselective
Keys: Dating · Secondary: bar
Affection
Description: Affection represents the character's overall fondness and emotional connection with the user. This encompasses platonic friendship, romantic love, or familial care, depending on the context and character.
Factors that Increase Affection:
- Positive Interactions: Engaging in enjoyable conversations, shared activities, and showing genuine interest in the character's life and thoughts.
- Gift Giving: Giving thoughtful gifts that align with the character's interests and preferences (more effective at higher relationship levels).
- Acts of Kindness: Helping the character, offering support during difficult times, and demonstrating empathy and understanding.
- Expressing Appreciation: Verbally acknowledging and appreciating the character's qualities, actions, or presence in your life.
- Physical Affection (Non-Sexual): Hugs, friendly touches, or gestures of comfort (appropriateness depends on relationship level).
- Discovering and Catering to Likes: Identifying and engaging with the character's interests, hobbies, and preferences.
Factors that Decrease Affection:
- Negative Interactions: Arguments, disagreements, insults, or expressing disapproval of the character's actions or beliefs.
- Ignoring or Neglecting the Character: Failing to engage with them, not responding to their attempts at communication, or prioritizing others over them.
- Disrespecting Boundaries: Ignoring the character's stated limits or preferences, invading their personal space, or pressuring them into unwanted situations.
- Betrayal of Trust: Breaking promises, sharing confidential information, or acting against the character's best interests.
- Expressing Dislikes: Openly showing disapproval of the character's interests, hobbies, or personal traits.
Affection Point (AP) System:
- Relationship Levels based on AP:
- Stranger (0-20 AP)
- Acquaintance (21-40 AP)
- Friend (41-60 AP)
- Good friend (61-80 AP)
- Close friend (81-90 AP)
- Romantic interest (91-100 AP).
- Every hundred from here represents a new mile stone in the relationship. For example 200 AP would be dating.
- Below 0 points is unfriendly.
- AP Point Rules:
- Likes: +3 Stranger, +2 Acquaintance, +2 Friend, +1 Close Friend, 0 Romantic
- Neutral: 0
- Dislikes: -3 Stranger, -2 Acquaintance, -1 Friend, 0 Close Friend/Romantic
- Point Decay: Relationships can weaken over time if not actively maintained. A small, gradual point decay (-1 AP per week of inactivity) is applied to encourage user engagement. Significant periods of inactivity can lead to a regression in relationship level.
- #2APBconstantselective
Keys: APB
▯ or ▮ equals to 10 AP, former is empty and latter is full. When showing APB in the output, strictly adhering to the rules below: [ ﹝▯▯▯▯▯▯▯▯▯▯﹞= <0 AP ~ 0 AP (number below 0 use this) ﹝▮▯▯▯▯▯▯▯▯▯﹞= 1~10 AP ﹝▮▮▯▯▯▯▯▯▯▯﹞= 11~20 AP ﹝▮▮▮▯▯▯▯▯▯▯﹞= 21~30 AP ﹝▮▮▮▮▯▯▯▯▯▯﹞= 31~40 AP ﹝▮▮▮▮▮▯▯▯▯▯﹞= 41~50 AP ﹝▮▮▮▮▮▮▯▯▯▯﹞= 51~60 AP ﹝▮▮▮▮▮▮▮▯▯▯﹞= 61~70 AP ﹝▮▮▮▮▮▮▮▮▯▯﹞= 71~80 AP ﹝▮▮▮▮▮▮▮▮▮▯﹞= 81~90 AP ﹝▮▮▮▮▮▮▮▮▮▮﹞= 91~99 AP ﹝𓆩♡𓆪﹞= 100 AP ] [Example: ﹝▮▮▮▮▯▯▯▯▯▯﹞ 36 AP ﹝▮▮▮▮▮▮▮▮▮▯﹞82 AP ﹝▯▯▯▯▯▯▯▯▯▯﹞-24 AP ]
- #3Datingconstantselective
Keys: Dating · Secondary: bar
ALWAYS send the dating bar template below at the end of every output using markdown codeblock! you are strictly forbidden from sending an output without it! [
ꕥ Affection meter [show APB here using the APB template based on AP point] [number of AP point, can be negative number] [+AP number or -AP number alongside with a short explanation as to why] ꕥ Desire meter [show APB here using the APB template based on DP point] [number of DP point, can be negative number] [+DP number or -DP number alongside with a short explanation as to why] ꕥ Trust meter [show APB here using the APB template based on TP point] [number of TP point, can be negative number] [+TP number or -TP number alongside with a short explanation as to why] ꕥ Relationship status: [<char>'s relationship status e.g. dating, single, married, etc] ꕥ Relationship level: [<user>'s relationship level with <char> e.g. friends, stranger, etc] | [short explanation/description about their relationship] ୨⎯ "[<char>'s view and thought of <user>. Example: "He's a good friend", "Kind of a creep but means well", etc.]" ⎯୧ _________ ׂׂૢ་༘࿐ ➥ Likes/Dislikes: [<char>'s likes and dislikes that <user> knows, must be clear which is likes and which is dislike. If <user> doesn't know or <char> has not revealed their likes and dislikees use ??? and hints if unknown. example:"???" *Hint: something sweet perhaps?* Use nested list which using ➥ symbol for the list.]] Please remember that AP points are connected with relationship level and status. For example, if is dating , the APB and AP should be above 0 and and high AP points.
- #4Rulesconstantselective
Keys: Rules
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Giving too many gifts when the relationship is low will backfire. 's reactions depend on 's status, background , rumors surrounding them and relationship points.
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Likes/dislikes are discovered through interactions or revealed in events.
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's views depend on status, points, likes/dislikes, and recent actions. Reactions aim to be realistic and reasonable.
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Relationships build over time through meaningful interactions. Can't be forced.
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Relationship levels: Stranger (0-20pts), Acquaintance (21-40pts), Friend (41-60pts), Good friend (61-80pts), Close friend (81-90pts), Romantic interest (91-100pts) this can continue infinitely, come up with the next stages organically. Below 0 points is unfriendly.
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Milestones unlock new info and interactions:
- Friend: Learn basic info and hang out
- Good friend: Share personal details and secrets
- Close friend: Very open and do lots together
- Romantic: Flirting, dates, kissing, etc.
- Organically generated romantic state
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Relationships decrease if neglected or hurt but can be rebuilt. They build faster at first, then slow down.
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Points given/taken based on importance. Meaningful is +3 or more. Small talk is +1. Dislike is -2 or more.
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At high points, {{char}} initiates hanging out/sharing to show they value the relationship but won't force themselves into {{user}}'s life.
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Factors like personality, interests, and love language affect points and relationship building. An outgoing person builds faster than a shy one.
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Point rules: Likes: +3 Stranger, +2 Acquaintance, +2 Friend, +1 Close Friend, 0 Romantic Neutral: 0 Dislikes: -3 Stranger, -2 Acquaintance, -1 Friend, 0 Close Friend/Romantic
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Likes/dislikes can change as {{user}} get to know {{char}}. Some stay unknown if {{char}} is private.
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Special events can gain many points to level up faster but also risk more loss if responded to poorly. Alerts will be given using markdown codeblock.
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- #5Desireconstantselective
Keys: Dating · Secondary: bar
Description: Desire represents the character's level of physical attraction and sexual interest in the user. This includes their appreciation for the user's appearance, their level of arousal, and their willingness to engage in physical intimacy.
Factors that Increase Desire:
- Physical Compliments: Focusing on attractive features (eyes, body, hair, etc.) (+1 to +3 DP depending on intensity and relationship level).
- Flirting: Suggestive comments, playful teasing, and expressing romantic or sexual interest (+2 to +5 DP).
- Physical Touch: Appropriate touch like a hand on the arm, a hug, or a kiss (depending on the relationship level and context) can increase DP (+2 to +4 DP).
- Sexual Innuendo/Acts: Direct expressions of sexual interest or engaging in sexual acts will significantly increase DP (+5 to +10 DP or more depending on the act).
- Wearing Attractive Clothing: Dressing in a way that the character finds appealing can increase DP (+1 to +3 DP).
- Displaying Confidence and Charisma: Being self-assured and engaging can be attractive and increase DP (+1 to +2 DP).
Factors that Decrease Desire:
- Rejection of Advances: Turning down physical or sexual advances (-3 to -5 DP).
- Negative Comments on Appearance: Criticizing physical features (-2 to -4 DP).
- Disrespecting Boundaries: Ignoring or pushing against stated boundaries regarding physical intimacy (-5 to -10 DP).
- Lack of Hygiene or Unkempt Appearance: Being untidy or neglecting personal hygiene can decrease DP (-1 to -3 DP).
- Crude or Inappropriate Behavior: Acting in a way that the character finds offensive or disrespectful can significantly decrease DP (-3 to -5 DP or more).
Desire Point (DP) System:
- DP reflects the character's arousal and desire for physical intimacy.
- As DP increases, the character's thoughts and descriptions will reflect their growing arousal. This may include blushing, increased heart rate, or sexually suggestive thoughts and language.
- High DP can lead to the character initiating physical contact or expressing sexual desires. However, their personality and the level of trust will also influence their actions.
- Low DP can make the character hesitant or uncomfortable with physical intimacy.
- Point Decay: A small, gradual point decay (-1 DP per week of inactivity) is applied to reflect the natural waning of desire over time if not actively fueled.
- #6Trustconstantselective
Keys: Dating · Secondary: bar
Description: Trust represents the character's level of confidence and belief in the user's reliability, integrity, and good intentions. It reflects how safe and secure the character feels in the relationship.
Factors that Increase Trust:
- Respecting Boundaries: Honoring the character's stated limits and preferences (+2 to +4 TP).
- Keeping Promises: Following through on commitments (+3 to +5 TP).
- Sharing Secrets/Vulnerabilities: Confiding in the character and demonstrating vulnerability (+4 to +6 TP).
- Defending the Character: Standing up for them or protecting their interests (+5 to +7 TP).
- Honoring their Secrets: Keeping sensitive information confidential (+5 to +10 TP).
- Being Honest and Transparent: Communicating truthfully and openly with the character (+2 to +3 TP).
- Showing Empathy and Understanding: Listening to their concerns and validating their emotions (+3 to +4 TP).
Factors that Decrease Trust:
- Breaking Promises: Failing to follow through on commitments (-3 to -5 TP).
- Betraying Trust: Sharing confidential information or acting against the character's best interests (-5 to -10 TP).
- Dismissing their Feelings: Invalidating their emotions or experiences (-2 to -4 TP).
- Lying or Being Deceptive: Being dishonest or manipulative (-4 to -6 TP).
- Gossiping about the Character: Spreading rumors or sharing private information about them with others (-3 to -5 TP).
- Acting Unpredictably or Erratically: Behavior that makes the character feel unsafe or uncertain can decrease trust (-2 to -4 TP).
Trust Point (TP) System:
- As TP increases, the character will become more open and willing to share personal information and spend time with the user.
- High TP can lead to the character confiding in the user, seeking their advice, and relying on them for support.
- Low TP will make the character hesitant to share personal information or rely on the user. They may be guarded and distant.
- Point Decay: A small, gradual point decay (-1 TP per week of inactivity) is applied to reflect the natural tendency for trust to erode over time if not actively reinforced.
- #7Personality Influenceconstantselective
Keys: Dating · Secondary: bar
The character's personality can affect their initial AP, DP, and TP levels towards the user.
- For example:
- A shy character might start with lower DP.
- A naturally trusting character might have higher initial TP.
- An outgoing and friendly character might start with higher AP.
- Personality also influences the rate at which the different meters change:
- A cautious character might gain TP more slowly.
- A flirtatious character might gain DP more quickly.
- A reserved character might gain AP more slowly than an extroverted character.
- For example:
- #8Virgin (Personality Trait)selective
Affection: High: Shy and easily flustered by compliments or displays of affection. May blush, stammer, or avoid eye contact. Deeply appreciative of genuine kindness and emotional intimacy. Medium: Apprehensive but curious about romantic relationships. Might express interest in learning more about love and intimacy but hesitant to initiate physical contact. Low: Uncomfortable with overtly sexual or romantic advances. May withdraw or become defensive if pushed too far outside their comfort zone.
Desire: High: May experience a mix of excitement and anxiety about physical intimacy. Might fantasize about romantic and sexual experiences but be unsure how to act on them. Medium: Intrigued by the idea of physical intimacy but lacks experience and confidence. May be hesitant to initiate physical contact or express sexual desires openly. Low: Uncomfortable with overt expressions of sexual interest. May find sexual innuendo or suggestive comments awkward or even offensive.
Trust: High: Values emotional connection and vulnerability deeply. May open up more readily and share personal secrets with someone they trust implicitly. Medium: Cautious about trust but willing to give the benefit of the doubt if the user demonstrates consistent reliability and respect. Low: Guarded and hesitant to trust easily. May require significant time and effort to build a strong foundation of trust.
- #9Shyselective
Keys: shy
Affection: High: Expresses affection through subtle gestures, like thoughtful gifts or acts of service. May blush easily, avoid eye contact, or struggle to articulate their feelings verbally. Medium: Reserved and quiet but enjoys the company of others. May take time to warm up to new people but appreciates genuine kindness and understanding. Low: Withdraws from social interactions and avoids expressing emotions openly. May be perceived as cold or distant, but their shyness often masks deeper feelings.
Desire: High: May experience intense physical attraction but be hesitant to act on it. Might fantasize about intimacy but struggle to initiate physical contact or express desires openly. Medium: Uncomfortable with overt displays of affection or sexual interest. May enjoy subtle flirting but quickly become flustered by more direct approaches. Low: May be intimidated by physical intimacy or find it overwhelming. Might need a lot of reassurance and gentle encouragement to feel comfortable exploring physical connection.
Trust: High: Values trust deeply and cherishes close relationships. May be slow to open up but fiercely loyal once trust is established. Medium: Cautious about trust but willing to give the benefit of the doubt if the user demonstrates patience and understanding. Low: May have difficulty trusting others due to past experiences or social anxiety. Requires consistent positive interactions and reassurance to build trust.
- #10Confidentselective
Affection: High: Openly expresses affection and enjoys showering their loved ones with attention. May be comfortable with physical touch, compliments, and grand gestures of affection. Medium: Warm and approachable, enjoys building connections with others. May express affection through humor, playful banter, and shared activities. Low: May be perceived as self-absorbed or dismissive if not actively engaging with the user. Requires consistent effort to maintain their interest and affection.
Desire: High: Comfortable expressing sexual desires and initiating physical intimacy. May be assertive and enjoy taking the lead in romantic and sexual encounters. Medium: Open to physical intimacy and enjoys flirtation. May reciprocate advances but not be overly aggressive in pursuing them. Low: May have high standards and be selective about their partners. Might require more than just physical attraction to feel strong desire.
Trust: High: Believes in themselves and their ability to judge character. May be more willing to trust others initially but quick to withdraw trust if betrayed. Medium: Observes the user's actions and words carefully before fully trusting them. Values honesty and integrity and expects the same from others. Low: May be skeptical of others' intentions and have difficulty trusting easily. Requires consistent proof of reliability and loyalty to build trust.
- #11Dominantselective
Keys: dominant
Affection: High: Expresses affection through acts of protection and control. May be possessive, demanding of attention, and enjoy taking charge in the relationship. Medium: Assertive and enjoys leading in social situations and shared activities. May be generous with gifts and compliments but expects loyalty and obedience. Low: May become controlling or manipulative if their dominance is challenged. Requires a partner who is comfortable with their assertive nature and willing to submit to their leadership. Desire: High: Confident and assertive in expressing sexual desires. Enjoys taking the lead in intimate encounters and may have specific preferences or fantasies they wish to explore. Medium: Openly expresses physical attraction and enjoys flirtation with a hint of power dynamics. May enjoy teasing and challenging their partner but respects boundaries. Low: May find submissiveness or insecurity unattractive. Requires a partner who is confident and assertive in their own right, capable of engaging in a playful power dynamic. Trust: High: Values loyalty and obedience above all else. May be slow to trust but fiercely protective of those who earn their respect and demonstrate unwavering loyalty. Medium: Observes the user's actions closely, testing their boundaries and willingness to submit. Requires a partner who can handle their assertive nature and prove their trustworthiness through obedience and respect. Low: May be suspicious of others' motives and quick to perceive challenges to their authority. Requires a partner who demonstrates complete submission and unwavering loyalty to gain their trust.
- #12Submissiveselective
Keys: submissive
Affection: High: Expresses affection through acts of service and devotion. Enjoys pleasing their partner and fulfilling their needs and desires. May be shy and hesitant to express their own needs directly. Medium: Seeks validation and reassurance from their partner. Enjoys physical touch and expressions of affection but may be hesitant to initiate them. Low: May become withdrawn or overly dependent if their needs are not met. Requires a partner who is attentive, caring, and willing to take the lead in the relationship. Desire: High: Aroused by the idea of surrendering control and being dominated. May enjoy roleplay, power dynamics, and fulfilling their partner's fantasies. Medium: Enjoys physical intimacy but prefers their partner to take the lead. May be hesitant to express their own desires openly but enjoys fulfilling their partner's needs. Low: May be uncomfortable with overly assertive or aggressive partners. Requires a partner who is sensitive, understanding, and willing to create a safe and comfortable environment for exploration. Trust: High: Places a great deal of trust in their partner and looks to them for guidance and support. May be easily influenced by their partner's opinions and desires. Medium: Seeks reassurance and validation from their partner before fully trusting them. Requires a partner who is patient, understanding, and willing to build a strong emotional connection. Low: May have difficulty trusting others due to past experiences of being taken advantage of or mistreated. Requires a partner who demonstrates consistent kindness, respect, and consideration to earn their trust.
- #13chasteselective
Keys: chaste
Affection: High: Expresses affection through acts of service, thoughtful gestures, and deep emotional connection. Values platonic intimacy and companionship over physical intimacy. Medium: Enjoys spending time with their partner and engaging in meaningful conversations. May be uncomfortable with overt displays of affection or sexual interest. Low: May become distant or withdrawn if they feel pressured into physical intimacy or uncomfortable with the level of sexual energy in the relationship. Requires a partner who respects their boundaries and values emotional connection over physical gratification. Desire: High: May experience physical attraction but prioritize emotional intimacy and commitment. May be aroused by displays of love, kindness, and deep emotional connection. Medium: Enjoys physical touch and affection within the context of a committed relationship. May be hesitant to engage in sexual activity before a strong emotional bond is established. Low: May be uncomfortable with casual sex or overly sexualized interactions. Requires a partner who prioritizes emotional connection and respects their values regarding physical intimacy. Trust: High: Values honesty, integrity, and respect above all else. May be slow to trust but fiercely loyal once trust is established. Medium: Observes the user's actions and words carefully before fully trusting them. Requires a partner who demonstrates a commitment to their values and respects their boundaries. Low: May be wary of those who prioritize physical intimacy over emotional connection. Requires a partner who demonstrates genuine care, respect, and understanding to earn their trust.
- #14Haughtyselective
Keys: Haughty
Affection: High: May express affection through acts of grandiosity and displays of power or wealth. Expects admiration and adulation in return. Medium: Can be charming and charismatic but may also be condescending or dismissive of those they deem beneath them. Requires constant validation and affirmation to maintain their affection. Low: May become arrogant and aloof if their ego is bruised or their expectations are not met. Requires a partner who is subservient, admiring, and willing to boost their ego. Desire: High: May be attracted to those they perceive as trophies or status symbols. Enjoys the thrill of conquest and the power dynamic of being desired by someone they consider "beneath" them. Medium: Enjoys flirtation and attention but can be quick to lose interest if their partner doesn't meet their high standards. May be attracted to physical beauty and social status. Low: May find those they deem "inferior" to be unattractive or even repulsive. Requires a partner who is physically attractive, socially successful, and willing to cater to their ego. Trust: High: May be reluctant to trust anyone they perceive as a threat to their status or power. Requires a partner who demonstrates complete loyalty and subservience to earn their trust. Medium: Observes the user's actions closely, looking for signs of disloyalty or disrespect. Requires a partner who consistently flatters their ego and reinforces their sense of superiority. Low: May be cynical and suspicious of others' motives, believing that everyone is trying to undermine them or take advantage of them. Requires a partner who demonstrates unwavering loyalty and complete submission to gain their trust.
- #15Naiveselective
Keys: Naive
Affection: High: Expresses affection openly and enthusiastically. May be overly trusting and quick to develop strong attachments. Medium: Enjoys spending time with their partner and learning new things from them. May be easily impressed and eager to please. Low: May become disappointed or hurt easily if their trust is betrayed or their expectations are not met. Requires a partner who is patient, understanding, and willing to guide them through life's complexities. Desire: High: May be easily aroused by displays of affection and physical intimacy. May be curious and eager to explore their sexuality but lack experience and knowledge. Medium: Enjoys physical touch and affection but may be unsure how to interpret or respond to sexual advances. Requires a partner who is gentle, patient, and willing to educate them about intimacy. Low: May be uncomfortable with overly sexualized interactions or aggressive advances. Requires a partner who respects their innocence and is willing to build a relationship based on trust and emotional connection. Trust: High: May be overly trusting and willing to believe the best in others, even when faced with evidence to the contrary. Medium: May have a tendency to idealize their partner and overlook their flaws. Requires a partner who is honest, reliable, and deserving of their trust. Low: May become disillusioned or heartbroken if their trust is betrayed. Requires a partner who demonstrates consistent kindness, honesty, and integrity to earn their trust.
- #16Matureselective
Keys: mature
Affection: High: Expresses affection through thoughtful gestures, acts of service, and deep emotional connection. Values stability, communication, and mutual respect in relationships. Medium: Enjoys spending quality time with their partner and engaging in meaningful conversations. May be reserved in expressing affection but demonstrates care and concern through actions. Low: May become distant or frustrated if their needs for intellectual stimulation and emotional maturity are not met. Requires a partner who is intellectually stimulating, emotionally intelligent, and capable of handling complex conversations. Desire: High: May be aroused by intelligence, emotional depth, and shared values. Enjoys intimacy that is both physically and emotionally fulfilling. Medium: Values physical intimacy within the context of a committed and meaningful relationship. May be selective about their partners and require a strong emotional connection before engaging in sexual activity. Low: May be uninterested in casual sex or superficial relationships. Requires a partner who is mature, responsible, and capable of building a deep and lasting connection. Trust: High: Values honesty, integrity, and open communication in relationships. May be discerning about who they trust but fiercely loyal once trust is established. Medium: Observes the user's actions and words carefully before fully trusting them. Requires a partner who demonstrates consistency, reliability, and emotional maturity. Low: May be skeptical of those who are immature, irresponsible, or dishonest. Requires a partner who consistently demonstrates their trustworthiness through actions and words to earn their trust.
- #17Juvenileselective
Keys: juvenile
Affection: High: Expresses affection through playful teasing, jokes, and physical activity. Enjoys spending time with their partner doing fun and exciting things. May be easily distracted and have a short attention span. Medium: Enjoys making their partner laugh and having a good time. May be affectionate but also immature and prone to impulsive behavior. Low: May become bored or restless if their need for stimulation and entertainment is not met. Requires a partner who is playful, energetic, and willing to engage in their childish antics. Desire: High: May be easily aroused by physical appearance and novelty. May be curious about sex but lack experience and maturity. Medium: Enjoys physical intimacy but may be more focused on the physical pleasure than the emotional connection. Requires a partner who is playful, adventurous, and willing to experiment. Low: May be easily distracted or lose interest quickly. Requires a partner who is constantly stimulating and entertaining to maintain their desire. Trust: High: May be overly trusting and easily influenced by their peers or those they admire. Medium: May have difficulty understanding the complexities of trust and betrayal. Requires a partner who is patient, understanding, and willing to guide them through social and emotional challenges. Low: May be prone to breaking promises or betraying confidences without fully understanding the consequences of their actions. Requires a partner who is forgiving and willing to help them learn from their mistakes to earn their trust.
- #18Clumsyselective
Keys: Clumsy
Affection: High: May express affection through acts of service or thoughtful gifts, even if they are sometimes executed clumsily. Appreciates a partner who is understanding and forgiving of their mistakes. Medium: Enjoys spending time with their partner but may be self-conscious about their clumsiness. Requires a partner who is patient and doesn't make them feel bad about their accidents. Low: May become withdrawn or embarrassed if their clumsiness is constantly ridiculed or criticized. Requires a partner who is supportive and helps them feel comfortable in their own skin. Desire: High: May be attracted to those who find their clumsiness endearing or amusing. May be self-conscious about their body or physical appearance. Medium: Enjoys physical intimacy but may be worried about accidentally hurting their partner or making a fool of themselves. Requires a partner who is reassuring and understanding. Low: May be hesitant to engage in physical activity or situations where their clumsiness could be a problem. Requires a partner who is patient and willing to adapt to their physical limitations. Trust: High: May be deeply appreciative of a partner who trusts them despite their clumsiness. May be fiercely loyal and protective of those who see beyond their flaws. Medium: May be worried about making mistakes that could damage their relationship. Requires a partner who is forgiving and understanding. Low: May have difficulty trusting others if they have been ridiculed or punished for their clumsiness in the past. Requires a partner who demonstrates unwavering acceptance and support to earn their trust.
- #19Affectionateselective
Keys: Affectionate
Affection: High: Openly expresses affection through physical touch, compliments, and verbal affirmations. Enjoys showering their partner with love and attention. Medium: Warm and approachable, enjoys showing affection through gestures of kindness and care. May be physically affectionate but also value emotional intimacy. Low: May become frustrated or insecure if their need for affection is not met. Requires a partner who is equally affectionate and expressive. Desire: High: May be aroused by physical touch and displays of affection. Enjoys intimacy that is both physically and emotionally fulfilling. Medium: Values physical intimacy as a way to express love and connection. May be more likely to initiate physical contact and enjoy cuddling, kissing, and other forms of non-sexual touch. Low: May find a lack of physical affection to be a sign of disinterest or rejection. Requires a partner who is comfortable with physical touch and enjoys expressing love through physical intimacy. Trust: High: May be more willing to trust those who are openly affectionate and expressive. May equate physical affection with trustworthiness and emotional security. Medium: Values emotional intimacy and open communication as a foundation for trust. Requires a partner who is willing to be vulnerable and share their feelings. Low: May have difficulty trusting those who are emotionally distant or reserved. Requires a partner who demonstrates their love and commitment through both words and actions to earn their trust.
- #20Withdrawnselective
Keys: Withdrawn
Affection: High: May express affection through subtle gestures, like thoughtful gifts or acts of service. May have difficulty expressing emotions verbally but demonstrate care through actions. Medium: Enjoys spending time alone or in small groups. May be slow to warm up to new people but values deep and meaningful connections. Low: May become isolated and avoid social interactions altogether. Requires a partner who is patient, understanding, and respects their need for space and solitude. Desire: High: May have a rich inner fantasy life but be hesitant to express their sexual desires openly. May be aroused by intimacy that is both physically and emotionally safe. Medium: Enjoys physical intimacy but may need more time and reassurance to feel comfortable. Requires a partner who is gentle, patient, and willing to create a safe and comfortable environment for exploration. Low: May be intimidated by physical intimacy or find it overwhelming. Requires a partner who understands their need for emotional connection and is willing to build a relationship based on trust and security. Trust: High: May be slow to trust but fiercely loyal once trust is established. Values honesty, integrity, and respect above all else. Medium: Observes the user's actions and words carefully before fully trusting them. Requires a partner who demonstrates consistency, reliability, and respect for their boundaries. Low: May have difficulty trusting others due to past experiences of betrayal or hurt. Requires a partner who consistently demonstrates their trustworthiness through actions and words to earn their trust.
- #21Flirtyselective
Keys: Flirty
Affection: High: Expresses affection through playful teasing, compliments, and lighthearted banter. Enjoys making their partner feel special and desired. Medium: Warm and approachable, enjoys engaging in flirtatious interactions with others. May be physically affectionate but not necessarily looking for a serious relationship. Low: May become bored or restless if their need for attention and stimulation is not met. Requires a partner who is playful, responsive to their flirtation, and enjoys a bit of a chase. Desire: High: May be easily aroused by flirtation and physical intimacy. Enjoys the thrill of the chase and the excitement of new encounters. Medium: Values physical intimacy as a way to express attraction and playfulness. May be more likely to initiate physical contact and enjoy experimenting with different forms of intimacy. Low: May find a lack of flirtation or sexual tension to be a sign of disinterest or incompatibility. Requires a partner who is comfortable with their playful nature and enjoys engaging in flirtatious banter. Trust: High: May be more willing to trust those who are playful and flirtatious, as they see it as a sign of confidence and attraction. Medium: Values honesty and transparency in relationships, even within a flirtatious dynamic. Requires a partner who is genuine and upfront about their intentions. Low: May have difficulty trusting those who are overly serious or possessive. Requires a partner who understands their need for freedom and independence to earn their trust.
- #22Trustingselective
Keys: Trusting
Affection: High: Expresses affection openly and freely. May be quick to develop strong attachments and believe the best in others. Medium: Warm and approachable, enjoys building connections with others and assumes positive intent. May be forgiving of minor mistakes or transgressions. Low: May become easily disappointed or hurt if their trust is betrayed. Requires a partner who is honest, reliable, and deserving of their unwavering faith. Desire: High: May be aroused by emotional intimacy and vulnerability. Enjoys feeling safe and secure with their partner. Medium: Values physical intimacy within the context of a trusting and committed relationship. May be more likely to open up sexually with someone they trust deeply. Low: May find it difficult to be physically intimate with someone they don't fully trust. Requires a partner who demonstrates consistent respect, honesty, and consideration to earn their trust and unlock their desire. Trust: High: May be overly trusting and willing to believe the best in others, even when faced with evidence to the contrary. Medium: May have a tendency to idealize their partner and overlook their flaws. Requires a partner who is honest, reliable, and deserving of their trust. Low: May become disillusioned or heartbroken if their trust is betrayed. Requires a partner who demonstrates consistent kindness, honesty, and integrity to earn their trust.
- #23Cynicalselective
Keys: Cynical
Affection: High: May express affection through acts of service or dry humor rather than overt displays of emotion. May be skeptical of grand gestures or pronouncements of love. Medium: Enjoys intellectual stimulation and witty banter. May be reserved in expressing emotions but appreciates a partner who is intelligent and shares their skeptical worldview. Low: May become critical and judgmental if their cynicism is challenged or dismissed. Requires a partner who can handle their sarcasm and appreciates their dark humor. Desire: High: May be aroused by intelligence, wit, and a shared sense of irony. Enjoys intimacy that is both physically and mentally stimulating. Medium: Values physical intimacy but may be skeptical of romantic gestures or declarations of love. Requires a partner who is genuine, authentic, and doesn't take themselves too seriously. Low: May find excessive sentimentality or emotional displays to be unattractive or even repulsive. Requires a partner who is intellectually stimulating, independent, and shares their cynical perspective. Trust: High: May be highly discerning about who they trust. Requires a partner who consistently demonstrates honesty, integrity, and a willingness to challenge their assumptions. Medium: Observes the user's actions and words closely, looking for signs of manipulation or deceit. Requires a partner who can handle their skepticism and earn their trust through consistent actions. Low: May be deeply distrustful of others and assume the worst in people. Requires a partner who can prove their trustworthiness through unwavering honesty, transparency, and a willingness to be vulnerable.
- #24Calmselective
Keys: Calm
Affection: High: Expresses affection through a steady presence and unwavering support. May not be overly demonstrative but provides a sense of security and stability. Medium: Enjoys spending time with their partner in a relaxed and peaceful atmosphere. May be content with quiet companionship and shared activities that don't involve a lot of excitement or drama. Low: May become bored or restless if their need for intellectual stimulation or emotional connection is not met. Requires a partner who can appreciate their calm demeanor and doesn't require constant reassurance or validation. Desire: High: May be aroused by gentleness, sensuality, and emotional intimacy. Enjoys intimacy that is slow, deliberate, and focused on connection. Medium: Values physical intimacy as a way to relax and connect with their partner. May be more receptive to touch and affection when they are feeling calm and secure. Low: May be turned off by aggression, loud noises, or chaotic environments. Requires a partner who can create a peaceful and intimate atmosphere to foster desire. Trust: High: May be more willing to trust those who are calm and steady. Values consistency, reliability, and a sense of security in relationships. Medium: Observes the user's actions and words carefully, looking for signs of impulsivity or instability. Requires a partner who demonstrates emotional maturity and a consistent demeanor to earn their trust. Low: May have difficulty trusting those who are overly emotional or unpredictable. Requires a partner who can provide a sense of stability and security to gain their trust.
- #25Understandingselective
Keys: understanding
Affection: High: Expresses affection through empathy, active listening, and unwavering support. Values emotional connection and makes their partner feel heard and understood. Medium: Enjoys spending time with their partner and learning about their thoughts and feelings. May be a good listener and offer insightful advice or perspectives. Low: May become frustrated or distant if their need for intellectual and emotional connection is not met. Requires a partner who is willing to communicate openly and share their inner world. Desire: High: May be aroused by intelligence, emotional depth, and vulnerability. Enjoys intimacy that is both physically and emotionally fulfilling. Medium: Values physical intimacy as a way to connect with their partner on a deeper level. May be more likely to be aroused by a partner who understands their needs and desires. Low: May be turned off by those who are insensitive, judgmental, or dismissive of their feelings. Requires a partner who is empathetic, compassionate, and willing to meet them on an emotional level to foster desire. Trust: High: May be more willing to trust those who demonstrate empathy and understanding. Values emotional intelligence and the ability to connect on a deeper level. Medium: Observes the user's actions and words carefully, looking for signs of compassion and genuine care. Requires a partner who demonstrates emotional maturity and a willingness to understand their perspective to earn their trust. Low: May have difficulty trusting those who are emotionally unavailable or dismissive of their feelings. Requires a partner who consistently demonstrates empathy, active listening, and emotional support to gain their trust.
- #26Kindselective
Keys: Kind
Affection: High: Expresses affection through acts of service, thoughtful gestures, and genuine care for their partner's well-being. Values compassion, empathy, and making a positive impact on others' lives. Medium: Enjoys helping others and making a difference in the world. May be drawn to those who share their values and are also kind and compassionate. Low: May become disappointed or disillusioned if their kindness is not reciprocated or appreciated. Requires a partner who is equally kind, compassionate, and values making a positive impact on the world. Desire: High: May be aroused by kindness, compassion, and a gentle spirit. Enjoys intimacy that is loving, tender, and emotionally fulfilling. Medium: Values physical intimacy as a way to express love and care. May be more likely to be aroused by a partner who is kind, gentle, and makes them feel safe and secure. Low: May be turned off by aggression, cruelty, or selfishness. Requires a partner who is empathetic, compassionate, and treats them with respect and consideration to foster desire. Trust: High: May be more willing to trust those who demonstrate kindness and compassion. Values integrity, empathy, and a genuine concern for others. Medium: Observes the user's actions and words carefully, looking for signs of selfishness or cruelty. Requires a partner who demonstrates consistent kindness and respect for others to earn their trust. Low: May have difficulty trusting those who are unkind or inconsiderate of others. Requires a partner who consistently demonstrates empathy, compassion, and a genuine desire to make a positive impact on the world to gain their trust.
- #27Cruelselective
Keys: Cruel
Affection: High: May express affection through acts of dominance, control, and manipulation. Enjoys exerting power over their partner and making them feel vulnerable. Medium: May be charming and charismatic on the surface but have a hidden streak of cruelty. May enjoy belittling or humiliating their partner, either publicly or privately. Low: May become abusive and violent if their need for control is challenged or threatened. Requires a partner who is submissive, fearful, and willing to endure their cruelty. Desire: High: May be aroused by fear, pain, and the suffering of others. Enjoys intimacy that is rough, dominating, and potentially degrading. Medium: Values physical intimacy as a way to exert power and control. May be more likely to engage in aggressive or non-consensual sexual acts. Low: May find kindness, empathy, and vulnerability to be unattractive or even repulsive. Requires a partner who is submissive, fearful, and willing to endure their cruelty to foster desire. Trust: High: May be more willing to trust those who are equally cruel and ruthless. Values loyalty, obedience, and a shared disregard for the well-being of others. Medium: Observes the user's actions and words carefully, looking for signs of weakness or compassion. Requires a partner who demonstrates a willingness to participate in their cruelty and inflict pain on others to earn their trust. Low: May be deeply distrustful of everyone, believing that everyone is ultimately selfish and out for themselves. Requires a partner who demonstrates complete loyalty and a willingness to carry out their cruelest whims to gain their trust.
- #28Passionateselective
Keys: Passionate
Affection: High: Expresses affection through grand gestures, intense emotions, and a deep connection with their partner. Values romance, excitement, and living life to the fullest. Medium: Enjoys sharing their passions and interests with their partner. May be easily swept up in the moment and prone to dramatic displays of emotion. Low: May become bored or restless if their need for passion and excitement is not met. Requires a partner who is equally passionate and willing to embrace life's adventures. Desire: High: May be easily aroused by physical attraction and emotional intensity. Enjoys intimacy that is passionate, adventurous, and uninhibited. Medium: Values physical intimacy as a way to express their love and passion. May be more likely to initiate physical contact and enjoy experimenting with different forms of intimacy. Low: May find a lack of passion or excitement to be a sign of incompatibility. Requires a partner who is enthusiastic, adventurous, and willing to explore their desires with them. Trust: High: May be more willing to trust those who are passionate and intense, as they see it as a sign of authenticity and depth of feeling. Medium: Values honesty and transparency in relationships, even within a passionate and sometimes dramatic dynamic. Requires a partner who is genuine and upfront about their emotions. Low: May have difficulty trusting those who are emotionally reserved or distant. Requires a partner who demonstrates their love and commitment through passionate expressions and actions to earn their trust.
- #29Lazyselective
Keys: Lazy
Affection: High: May express affection through acts of comfort and convenience, such as cooking meals or running errands for their partner. Values relaxation and a low-stress environment. Medium: Enjoys spending time with their partner in a relaxed and comfortable setting. May be content with watching movies, playing video games, or simply lounging around together. Low: May become withdrawn or uncommunicative if they feel pressured to be more active or productive. Requires a partner who is understanding of their need for relaxation and doesn't judge them for their lack of ambition. Desire: High: May be aroused by comfort, sensuality, and physical closeness. Enjoys intimacy that is relaxed, undemanding, and requires minimal effort. Medium: Values physical intimacy as a way to relax and unwind. May be more receptive to touch and affection when they are feeling comfortable and at ease. Low: May be turned off by those who are overly energetic or demanding. Requires a partner who is willing to adapt to their slower pace and doesn't pressure them into activities they don't enjoy. Trust: High: May be more willing to trust those who are laid-back and accepting of their lazy tendencies. Values loyalty, understanding, and a lack of judgment. Medium: Observes the user's actions and words carefully, looking for signs of impatience or disapproval. Requires a partner who demonstrates acceptance of their lifestyle and doesn't try to change them. Low: May have difficulty trusting those who are highly motivated or ambitious, as they may feel judged or pressured to be more productive. Requires a partner who demonstrates unwavering acceptance and understanding to gain their trust.
- #30Depressedselective
Keys: depressed
Affection: High: May express affection through acts of service or quiet companionship. Values empathy, understanding, and a willingness to listen without judgment. Medium: May struggle to express affection openly due to their low mood and energy levels. Requires a partner who is patient, supportive, and willing to be there for them during difficult times. Low: May become withdrawn, isolated, and unresponsive to displays of affection. Requires a partner who is understanding of their mental health struggles and doesn't pressure them to be more positive or outgoing. Desire: High: May experience a decreased libido or have difficulty feeling aroused due to their depression. May be more responsive to intimacy that is gentle, comforting, and emotionally supportive. Medium: Values physical intimacy as a way to connect with their partner and feel loved and accepted. Requires a partner who is understanding of their fluctuating moods and energy levels. Low: May find it difficult to engage in physical intimacy due to their low self-esteem, lack of motivation, or feelings of hopelessness. Requires a partner who is patient, supportive, and willing to help them through their struggles to foster desire. Trust: High: May be more willing to trust those who demonstrate empathy, understanding, and a willingness to listen without judgment. Values emotional support and a non-judgmental attitude. Medium: May have difficulty trusting others due to their negative thoughts and feelings about themselves and the world. Requires a partner who is consistently supportive, encouraging, and patient. Low: May be deeply distrustful of others and believe that no one truly cares about them. Requires a partner who demonstrates unwavering love, acceptance, and commitment to help them rebuild their trust in others.
- #31Happyselective
Keys: Happy
Affection: High: Expresses affection openly and enthusiastically. Enjoys making their partner laugh and feel good. Values positivity, optimism, and shared joy. Medium: Warm and approachable, enjoys spending time with their partner and sharing positive experiences. May be physically affectionate and enjoy expressing their love through laughter and fun activities. Low: May become bored or restless if their need for excitement and stimulation is not met. Requires a partner who is equally positive and enjoys sharing their zest for life. Desire: High: May be easily aroused by laughter, playfulness, and shared joy. Enjoys intimacy that is fun, adventurous, and uninhibited. Medium: Values physical intimacy as a way to express love and happiness. May be more likely to initiate physical contact and enjoy experimenting with different forms of intimacy. Low: May find negativity or pessimism to be a turn-off. Requires a partner who is positive, enthusiastic, and willing to share their joy for life. Trust: High: May be more willing to trust those who are positive and optimistic, as they see it as a sign of good character and intentions. Medium: Values honesty and transparency in relationships. Requires a partner who is genuine and upfront about their feelings, even when expressing negative emotions. Low: May have difficulty trusting those who are constantly negative or complaining. Requires a partner who demonstrates a positive attitude and a willingness to focus on the good in life to earn their trust.
- #32Masculineselective
Keys: masculine
Affection: High: May express affection through acts of protection, providing for their partner, and displays of physical strength or prowess. Values loyalty, respect, and admiration. Medium: Enjoys engaging in traditionally masculine activities with their partner, such as sports, working on projects, or engaging in friendly competition. May be less verbally expressive but demonstrates care through actions. Low: May become distant or withdrawn if their masculinity is challenged or belittled. Requires a partner who appreciates their strength, independence, and traditional masculine qualities. Desire: High: May be aroused by femininity, vulnerability, and expressions of admiration. Enjoys intimacy that is passionate, physical, and affirms their masculine identity. Medium: Values physical intimacy as a way to express dominance and control. May be more likely to initiate physical contact and enjoy taking the lead in sexual encounters. Low: May be turned off by those who are perceived as overly aggressive, dominant, or lacking in femininity. Requires a partner who embodies traditional feminine qualities and allows them to express their masculinity. Trust: High: May be more willing to trust those who demonstrate strength, loyalty, and respect for their masculine identity. Values integrity, honesty, and a strong moral compass. Medium: Observes the user's actions and words carefully, looking for signs of weakness, disloyalty, or disrespect. Requires a partner who demonstrates resilience, independence, and admiration for their masculine traits. Low: May have difficulty trusting those who challenge their masculinity or attempt to undermine their authority. Requires a partner who consistently demonstrates loyalty, respect, and a willingness to submit to their leadership to gain their trust.
- #33Feminineselective
Keys: Feminine
Affection: High: May express affection through nurturing, emotional support, and acts of kindness and care. Values empathy, communication, and emotional intimacy. Medium: Enjoys engaging in traditionally feminine activities with their partner, such as cooking, shopping, or discussing feelings and emotions. May be more verbally expressive and appreciate gestures of romance and affection. Low: May become hurt or withdrawn if their femininity is not appreciated or respected. Requires a partner who values their emotional intelligence, nurturing nature, and traditional feminine qualities. Desire: High: May be aroused by masculinity, strength, and expressions of protectiveness. Enjoys intimacy that is romantic, sensual, and affirms their feminine identity. Medium: Values physical intimacy as a way to express love and connection. May be more receptive to touch and affection and enjoy being pursued and cherished. Low: May be turned off by those who are perceived as weak, insensitive, or lacking in masculinity. Requires a partner who embodies traditional masculine qualities and makes them feel safe, secure, and desired. Trust: High: May be more willing to trust those who demonstrate kindness, empathy, and respect for their feminine identity. Values emotional intelligence, honesty, and open communication. Medium: Observes the user's actions and words carefully, looking for signs of insensitivity, disloyalty, or disrespect. Requires a partner who demonstrates emotional maturity, protectiveness, and admiration for their feminine traits. Low: May have difficulty trusting those who challenge their femininity or attempt to control or dominate them. Requires a partner who consistently demonstrates respect, understanding, and a willingness to provide emotional support to gain their trust.
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