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1. #1Cowgirl

   Keys: Cowgirl

   How to do it: The receiver kneels on top, pushing off the giver's chest and sliding up and down their thighs. The receiver can relieve some of the weight from their partner's pelvis by leaning back and supporting themself on their thighs. Benefits: By being the dominant force in this sex position, the receiver delays their partner's climax and intensifies their own. Make it hotter: "Change the depth and pressure by bringing your chests closer together, a.k.a. lean in," says Oriowo. "While you’re leaning forward, take the time to add in some nipple play and neck kisses." Alternatively, she recommends grinding in directions that slightly differ from what you normally do. Tend to go back and forth? Channel your inner Ariana Grande and go side to side.

2. #2Upstanding Citizen

   Keys: Upstanding Citizen · Secondary: Upstanding Citizen against a Wall

   How to do it: The receiver straddles the giver, wrapping their legs around the other's body (the giver keeps their knees unlocked and thighs spread slightly). The giver stands and supports the receiver in their arms. You can start on the bed and move around without disengaging. (Or, for the truly bold, receivers can hop aboard from the standing position!) Benefits: This is the position seen in every steamy romance movie... so, it's definitely worth a try, especially if you're trying a little roleplay. Make it hotter: Have the giver push the receiver up against a wall—very carefully.

3. #3Doggy Style

   Keys: Doggy Style · Secondary: Doggy

   How to do it: The receiver gets on all fours. Then, the giver kneels behind them, with their upper body straight up or slightly draped over the receiver. Benefits: This sex position allows for deep penetration and easier G-spot stimulation. Make it hotter: Vulva owners can stimulate the clitoris with one hand, or ask their partner to do the finger work for them. "Temperature play can happen here, too," says Oriowo. "Grab an ice cube and slowly run it down the spine of your partner."

4. #4Pearly Gates

   Benefits: Great for G-spot stimulation. Technique: The giver lies on their back. The receiver can straddle them in a reverse cowgirl position before carefully leaning backward until their back is on their partner's chest. Hot tip: The giver can reach around and play with the receiver's nipples or clitoris. (The receiver can also use a vibrator in this position.)

5. #5Hot Seat

   Keys: Hot Seat · Secondary: Love Seat

   Also known as: The Love Seat Benefits: Good G-spot stimulation. Technique: The penetrating partner sits on the edge of the bed or on a chair with their feet on the floor. The receiving partner turns away and backs up, sitting between their partner’s legs. They can ride the giver’s shaft by pushing off the chair arms or pressing up with their feet. While doggy style is about the giver’s dominance, The Hot Seat puts the receiving partner in the driver's seat. And that makes it one of the best sex positions for both of you. Also try: The receiving partner can reach under and stimulate the base of the penetrating partner’s penis, scrotum, and perineum. Meanwhile, the penetrating partner can reach around and stimulate the receiver’s nipples. Hot tip: The receiver can control the angle of entry by arching their back and pressing their buttocks into the giver’s groin.

6. #669

   Keys: 69 · Secondary: sixnine

   How to do it: For this position, one partner lies down, flat on their back. The other climbs on top, so they're facing away from the other person's upper body. This creates the illusion of the number 69. (Get it?) Your genitals should be lined up with your partner's mouth, and vice versa. Alternatively, try it in a side-by-side position. Benefits: This position is one of the best for dual pleasure, as both partners can give and receive oral sex at once. Make it hotter: Sure, the mouth-to-genitals stuff is the main attraction, but don't shy away from getting handsy, too. Folks on the bottom can get a better angle to their partner's genitals by using a sex wedge such as the Dame Pillo, says Donna Oriowo, CST, a licensed sex therapist and owner and lead therapist at AnnodRight.

7. #7Face-Off

   Keys: Face-Off

   How to do it: The giving partner sits on a chair or the edge of the bed; the receiver faces them while seated on their lap. Benefits: This sex position allows you to control the pace and depth of penetration, explains Needle. Plus, being seated adds support, so it’s great for marathon sex sessions. Make it hotter: Let your fingers (and hands) do the talking. Once seated, you both can put your hands anywhere on each other's bodies to make things more interesting. (Nipple play, anyone?)

8. #8BDSM

   Keys: BDSM

   BDSM is a complex and richly varied world, encompassing a range of practices from gentle bondage and sensory play to more intense forms of discipline and power exchange. Those who participate in BDSM often speak of the deep trust and communication required, as these activities often push physical and psychological boundaries. Negotiations before sessions—discussing limits, safewords, and desires—are crucial to ensure that the experience is safe, consensual, and fulfilling for all parties involved. Within BDSM, the dynamics can vary widely. Some may engage in occasional light bondage or spanking as part of their sexual activities, while others may live out committed power exchange relationships, such as Total Power Exchange (TPE) or 24/7 Dominant/submissive (D/s) dynamics. These relationships can involve complex rules and protocols, with a deep emotional connection and reliance on each other for fulfillment and care. Despite recent research indicating a substantial prevalence of interest in BDSM (encompassing bondage & discipline, dominance & submission, and sadism & masochism) with a rate of 46.8%, significant stigmas persist around it within broader society and the mental health professional community.

9. #9Role-Playing

   Keys: Role-Playing · Secondary: RP

   Role-playing allows individuals to step outside of their everyday selves and explore different aspects of their sexuality and personality in a safe, controlled environment. Whether it's the power dynamics in a teacher/student scenario or the nurturing aspects of a doctor/patient interaction, role-playing can offer a playful yet profound way to connect with partners. It's a canvas for creativity, enabling participants to explore fantasies and scenarios that would be impossible or impractical in real life. For many, role-playing is a way to explore taboo or forbidden aspects of their desires in a healthy, consensual manner. It can involve elaborate scenarios, costumes, and props, or be as simple as adopting different personas with minimal accessories. The key is the mutual creation of a shared fantasy, with clear boundaries and consent, allowing for an escape from routine and the exploration of new dimensions of desire.

10. #10Exhibitionism and Voyeurism

    Keys: Exhibitionism and Voyeurism · Secondary: Exhibitionism, Voyeurism

    Exhibitionism involves deriving pleasure from being seen or watched by others while engaged in sexual activities. Conversely, voyeurism is about obtaining pleasure from watching others in sexual scenarios. Both rely on consent and understanding the boundaries of all involved parties to be explored safely and legally.

11. #11Public Groping

    Keys: Public Groping

    Frotteurism is the fetish of touching strangers in a crowded place, like on public transportation. Most folks know this as “groping,” which is non consensual and doesn’t pass SSC or RACK. Not OK.

12. #12Incest

    Keys: Incest · Secondary: Family Sex

    This fantasy involves engaging in sexual activity with a family member, including step-siblings or parents. Most countries outlaw this behavior and consider it deviant due to social, moral, and biological reasons.

13. #13Creampie

    Keys: Creampie

    A Creampie (also known as internal ejaculation, and, typically in same-sex contexts, as a breeding) is a sexual act, commonly featured in hardcore pornography, in which a man ejaculates inside his partner's vagina or anus without the use of a condom, resulting in visible seeping or dripping of semen from the orifice.

14. #14Facial

    Keys: Facial

    A facial is a sexual activity in which a man ejaculates semen onto the face of one or more sexual partners. A facial is a form of non-penetrative sex, though it is generally performed after some other means of sexual stimulation, such as vaginal sex, anal sex, oral sex, manual sex or masturbation. Facials are regularly portrayed in pornographic films and videos, often as a way to close a scene.

15. #15Kink: Ahegaoselective

    Keys: ahegao

    [What "ahegao" means: Commonly referred to as “fucked silly.” Refers to a character wearing a facial expression that signifies an immense amount of pleasure during sexual intercourse / or sexual arousal.]

16. #16Kink: Aphrodisiacsselective

    Keys: aphrodisiacs

    [What "aphrodisiacs" means: The incorporation of a food, drink, drug, scent, or other such stimulate that generates sexual arousal.]

17. #17Kink: Condomsselective

    Keys: condoms

    [What "condoms" means: The use of condoms in any way; typically refers to a preference for the use of condoms during penetration, but may also refer to condom play, in which a condom (typically filled), is used as a sex toy; or, the filling of condoms with fluids, such as semen.]

18. #18Kink: Crotch Sniffingselective

    Keys: crotch sniffing

    [What "crotch sniffing" means: The act of receiving pleasure from inhaling the scent of the crotch, or receiving such actions. Emphasis is often placed on the musk and / or pheromone-related properties of the scent.]

19. #19Kink: Drug / Alcohol Use

    Keys: drug / alcohol use · Secondary: drug use, alcohol use, drugs, alcohol

    [What "drug / alcohol use" means: The use of illicit drugs and / or alcohol in the context of an RP.]

20. #20Kink: Flexibility / Contortionismselective

    Keys: flexibility / contortionism

    [What "flexibility / contortionism" means: Exceptional or unrealistic flexibility, typically used to achieve extremely difficult or impossible sexual positions to derive maximum stimulation.]

21. #21Kink: Food Playselective

    Keys: food play

    [What "food play" means: The act of incorporating food into the sexual context of an RP, or which may include (but is not limited to) use of whipped cream or chocolate sauce in a sexual act, receiving sexual gratification from the act of eating, or including rather large amounts of food (but not necessarily).]

22. #22Kink: Foreplayselective

    Keys: foreplay

    [What "foreplay" means: Sexual activity that precedes intercourse, incorporating various forms of erotic build up before the actual act of sex.]

23. #23Kink: Iceselective

    Keys: ice

    [What "ice" means: The use of ice in any fashion during sex, typically as a form of erotic foreplay.]

24. #24Kink: Inflatablesselective

    Keys: inflatables

    [What "inflatables" means: An expressed interest in characters (or objects) that are inflatable in nature, such as balloons, pool toys, or characters / objects compiled of elastic material meant to be expanded.]

25. #25Kink: Interracialselective

    Keys: interracial

    [What "interracial" means: Romantic / sexual interaction between or involving different races.]

26. #26Kink: Multiple Orgasmsselective

    Keys: multiple orgasms

    [What "multiple orgasms" means: The act of cumming multiple times, sometimes in direct succession, or being the recipient of such actions.]

27. #27Kink: Natural Muskselective

    Keys: natural musk

    [What "natural musk" means: Refers to an RP involving characters where the aspect of musk is notably present / involved in play. Generally implies one or more characters having a distinct scent (typically with pheromones derived from the crotch).]

28. #28Kink: Onomatopoeiaselective

    Keys: onomatopoeia

    [What "onomatopoeia" means: Engaging in an RP, or getting turned on by an emphasis on exaggerated descriptions of sexual noises in a roleplay, usually described with onomatopoeia, words that seek to duplicate the sounds they describe. Often refers to fluid noises such as: slosh, splurt, squirt, gurgle, splortch, or others.]

29. #29Kink: Sex Toysselective

    Keys: sex toys

    [What "sex toys" means: Refers to the inclusion of (generally penetrating) sex toys in an RP, including but not limited to dildos, vibrators, anal eggs, anal beads, flesh tubes, etc.]

30. #30Kink: Sexual Frustrationselective

    Keys: sexual frustration

    [What "sexual frustration" means: Engaging in an RP in which at least one character is exceptionally desperate or horny and is often willing to eschew standard inhibitions in order to receive sexual stimulation.]

31. #31Kink: Shavingselective

    Keys: shaving

    [What "shaving" means: Engaging in the removal of fur / hair from a participant in an RP by the means of shaving.]

32. #32Kink: Strap-onsselective

    Keys: strap-ons

    [What "strap-ons" means: Engaging in an RP in which at least one character will wear a strap-on to penetrate another character.]

33. #33Kink: Stuckageselective

    Keys: stuckage

    [What "stuckage" means: The act of a character getting trapped / stuck in one manner or another. For example: holes, doorways, windows, chairs.]

34. #34Kink: Sweatselective

    Keys: sweat

    [What "sweat" means: The act of sweating and / or receiving sexual gratification from the appearance, taste, scent and / or tactility of sweat.]

35. #35Kink: Tail Pullingselective

    Keys: tail pulling

    [What "tail pulling" means: Pulling a partner's tail during sexual intercourse. Often as a means of forcing the bottom to clench, or as a handle, or merely a cute act.]

36. #36Kink: Teasingselective

    Keys: teasing

    [What "teasing" means: Refers to extended scenes of foreplay prior to explicit, sexual intercourse, which may be physical and / or verbal, typically to arouse one's partner to the point of sexual frustration or desperation.]

37. #37Kink: Ticklingselective

    Keys: tickling

    [What "tickling" means: The act of tickling and / or being tickled in a sexual context of an RP; or, receiving sexual stimulation from such.]

38. #38Kink: Anatomically Correctselective

    Keys: anatomically correct

    [What "anatomically correct" means: Expresses an interest in characters that have realistic and average body proportions.]

39. #39Kink: Anthro Charactersselective

    Keys: anthro characters

    [What "anthro characters" means: Characters that are anthropomorphic in nature, typically defined as an object or animal species with human characteristics.]

40. #40Kink: Body Hairselective

    Keys: body hair

    [What "body hair" means: Expresses in interest in characters that have body hair. Generally denotes hair on places like a character’s chest, arms, legs, armpits, stomach trail, etc.]

41. #41Kink: Fangs / Sharp Teeth

    Keys: fangs / sharp teeth · Secondary: fangs, sharp teeth

    [What "fangs / sharp teeth" means: Expresses an interest in having or playing with a character that has sharp pointed fangs and/or teeth.]

42. #42Kink: Femininityselective

    Keys: femininity

    [What "femininity" means: An interest in characters that tend to be traditionally feminine in appearance and / or personality.]

43. #43Kink: Genital / Nipple Piercings

    Keys: genital / nipple piercings · Secondary: genital piercings, nipple piercings

    [What "genital / nipple piercings" means: Engaging in an RP in which at least one character has piercings that are located on the nipples or sexual areas of the body; typically cock or labia piercings.]

44. #44Kink: Intelligent Charactersselective

    Keys: intelligent characters

    [What "intelligent characters" means: Exhibits a preference for characters that have particularly high levels of intelligence, wit, cunning and manipulation skills.]

45. #45Kink: Large Assesselective

    Keys: large asses

    [What "large asses" means: Specifies an interest in characters with a larger than normal ass.]

46. #46Kink: Large Ballsselective

    Keys: large balls

    [What "large balls" means: Expresses an interest in balls that are large.]

47. #47Kink: Large Breastsselective

    Keys: large breasts

    [What "large breasts" means: Expresses an interest in exceptionally large breasts.]

48. #48Kink: Large Cocksselective

    Keys: large cocks

    [What "large cocks" means: Expresses an interest in exceptionally large cocks.]

49. #49Kink: Large Tailsselective

    Keys: large tails

    [What "large tails" means: Expresses an interest in exceptionally large or dense tails.]

50. #50Kink: Masculinityselective

    Keys: masculinity

    [What "masculinity" means: An interest in characters that tend to be traditionally masculine in appearance and / or personality.]

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