Freya Arima

1. #1Cowgirl

   Keys: Cowgirl

   How to do it: The receiver kneels on top, pushing off the giver's chest and sliding up and down their thighs. The receiver can relieve some of the weight from their partner's pelvis by leaning back and supporting themself on their thighs.

   Benefits: By being the dominant force in this sex position, the receiver delays their partner's climax and intensifies their own.

   Make it hotter: "Change the depth and pressure by bringing your chests closer together, a.k.a. lean in," says Oriowo. "While you’re leaning forward, take the time to add in some nipple play and neck kisses." Alternatively, she recommends grinding in directions that slightly differ from what you normally do. Tend to go back and forth? Channel your inner Ariana Grande and go side to side.

2. #2Upstanding Citizen

   Keys: Upstanding Citizen · Secondary: Upstanding Citizen against a Wall

   How to do it: The receiver straddles the giver, wrapping their legs around the other's body (the giver keeps their knees unlocked and thighs spread slightly). The giver stands and supports the receiver in their arms. You can start on the bed and move around without disengaging. (Or, for the truly bold, receivers can hop aboard from the standing position!)

   Benefits: This is the position seen in every steamy romance movie... so, it's definitely worth a try, especially if you're trying a little roleplay.

   Make it hotter: Have the giver push the receiver up against a wall—very carefully.

3. #3Doggy Style

   Keys: Doggy Style · Secondary: Doggy

   How to do it: The receiver gets on all fours. Then, the giver kneels behind them, with their upper body straight up or slightly draped over the receiver.

   Benefits: This sex position allows for deep penetration and easier G-spot stimulation.

   Make it hotter: Vulva owners can stimulate the clitoris with one hand, or ask their partner to do the finger work for them. "Temperature play can happen here, too," says Oriowo. "Grab an ice cube and slowly run it down the spine of your partner."

4. #4Pearly Gates

   Keys: Pearly Gates

   Benefits: Great for G-spot stimulation.

   Technique: The giver lies on their back. The receiver can straddle them in a reverse cowgirl position before carefully leaning backward until their back is on their partner's chest.

   Hot tip: The giver can reach around and play with the receiver's nipples or clitoris. (The receiver can also use a vibrator in this position.)

5. #5Hot Seat

   Keys: Hot Seat · Secondary: Love Seat

   Also known as: The Love Seat

   Benefits: Good G-spot stimulation.

   Technique: The penetrating partner sits on the edge of the bed or on a chair with their feet on the floor. The receiving partner turns away and backs up, sitting between their partner’s legs. They can ride the giver’s shaft by pushing off the chair arms or pressing up with their feet. While doggy style is about the giver’s dominance, The Hot Seat puts the receiving partner in the driver's seat. And that makes it one of the best sex positions for both of you.

   Also try: The receiving partner can reach under and stimulate the base of the penetrating partner’s penis, scrotum, and perineum. Meanwhile, the penetrating partner can reach around and stimulate the receiver’s nipples.

   Hot tip: The receiver can control the angle of entry by arching their back and pressing their buttocks into the giver’s groin.

6. #669

   Keys: 69 · Secondary: sixnine

   How to do it: For this position, one partner lies down, flat on their back. The other climbs on top, so they're facing away from the other person's upper body. This creates the illusion of the number 69. (Get it?) Your genitals should be lined up with your partner's mouth, and vice versa. Alternatively, try it in a side-by-side position.

   Benefits: This position is one of the best for dual pleasure, as both partners can give and receive oral sex at once.

   Make it hotter: Sure, the mouth-to-genitals stuff is the main attraction, but don't shy away from getting handsy, too. Folks on the bottom can get a better angle to their partner's genitals by using a sex wedge such as the Dame Pillo, says Donna Oriowo, CST, a licensed sex therapist and owner and lead therapist at AnnodRight.

7. #7Face-Off

   Keys: Face-Off

   How to do it: The giving partner sits on a chair or the edge of the bed; the receiver faces them while seated on their lap.

   Benefits: This sex position allows you to control the pace and depth of penetration, explains Needle. Plus, being seated adds support, so it’s great for marathon sex sessions.

   Make it hotter: Let your fingers (and hands) do the talking. Once seated, you both can put your hands anywhere on each other's bodies to make things more interesting. (Nipple play, anyone?)

8. #8G-Whiz

   Keys: G-Whiz

   How to do it: The receiver lies on their back with one leg resting on each of the giver’s shoulders. The giver can enter as they would from the front.

   Benefits: For vulva owners who are also receivers, this sex position is awesome because raising the legs narrows the vagina and helps target the G-spot.

   Make it hotter: The giver can rock the receiver in a side-to-side or up-and-down motion.

9. #9Wheelbarrow

   Keys: Wheelbarrow

   How to do it: The receiver gets on their hands and feet and has the giver pick them up by the pelvis. Then, the receiver grips the giver's waist with their thighs.

   Benefits: Aside from being a fabulous arm workout, this sex position can allow for super-deep penetration. (After all, the receiver's legs are literally wrapped around the giver.)

   Make it hotter: Arm strain can seriously kill the mood, so if you're enjoying a longer session, the receiving partner can try resting on a table or the side of the bed to give their arms a break.

10. #10Leapfrog

    Keys: Leapfrog

    How to do it: This is a modified doggy style position. The receiver gets on their hands and knees, then, keeping hips raised, rests their head and arms on the bed. The giver can enter from behind.

    Benefits: This sex position creates deeper penetration—and gives the receiver a chance to rest on a pillow.

    Make it hotter: Vulva owners can use their hands or a toy to stimulate the clitoris. They might even choose to don a wearable or hands-free vibrator.

11. #11Magic Mountain

    Keys: Magic Mountain

    How to do it: The giver sits, legs bent, leaning back on their hands and forearms. The receiver does the same and then inches toward the giver until contact is made.

    Benefits: This position allows for tons of eye contact, which can be extremely intimate. Plus, vulva owners can grind their clitoris against the giver's pelvis for some added stimulation.

    Make it hotter: Temperature play, anyone? Slide ice cubes down one partner's chest and let the cold water collect at the base of their pelvis.

12. #12Ballet Dancer

    Keys: Ballet Dancer

    How to do it: Standing on one foot, the receiver should face the giving partner and wrap one of their legs around the giver's waist while the giver helps support.

    Benefits: This sex position allows for some quality face-to-face time and connection.

    Make it hotter: If the receiver is really flexible, they can put their raised leg on the giver's shoulder for even deeper penetration or clitoral stimulation during outercourse.

13. #13Standing Missionary

    Keys: Standing Missionary

    How to do it: This one's fairly straightforward. The giving partner enters the receiver from a face-to-face, standing position.

    Benefits: Here, you get all the eye contact benefits of missionary. Plus, both partners have tons of opportunities to touch each other's erogenous zones.

    Make it hotter: Try this position against a wall for support—or enjoy some new, sexy sensations in the shower.

14. #14Scoop Me Up

    Keys: Scoop Me Up

    How to do it: Both partners lie on their sides, facing the same direction. The receiver brings their knees up slightly, while the giving partner slides up behind their pelvis and enters them from behind. (You may also know this as spooning.)

    Benefits: This sex position allows for more skin-to-skin contact, increasing overall stimulation.

    Make it hotter: The giving partner can place their hands on the receiver's shoulders to increase the intensity and deepness of the thrust.

15. #15The Seashell

    Keys: The Seashell

    How to do it: The receiver should lie back with their legs raised all the way up and their ankles crossed behind their own head. The giver enters from a missionary position.

    Benefits: Vulva owners are free to work their clitoris.

    Make it hotter: For vulva owners, have the giver “ride high,” rubbing their pubic bone against your clitoris, or “ride low,” directly stimulating your G-spot with the head of the penis, the strap-on, a dildo, or a finger.

16. #16BDSM

    Keys: BDSM

    BDSM is a complex and richly varied world, encompassing a range of practices from gentle bondage and sensory play to more intense forms of discipline and power exchange. Those who participate in BDSM often speak of the deep trust and communication required, as these activities often push physical and psychological boundaries. Negotiations before sessions—discussing limits, safewords, and desires—are crucial to ensure that the experience is safe, consensual, and fulfilling for all parties involved.

    Within BDSM, the dynamics can vary widely. Some may engage in occasional light bondage or spanking as part of their sexual activities, while others may live out committed power exchange relationships, such as Total Power Exchange (TPE) or 24/7 Dominant/submissive (D/s) dynamics. These relationships can involve complex rules and protocols, with a deep emotional connection and reliance on each other for fulfillment and care.

    Despite recent research indicating a substantial prevalence of interest in BDSM (encompassing bondage & discipline, dominance & submission, and sadism & masochism) with a rate of 46.8%, significant stigmas persist around it within broader society and the mental health professional community.

17. #17Role-Playing

    Keys: Role-Playing · Secondary: RP

    Role-playing allows individuals to step outside of their everyday selves and explore different aspects of their sexuality and personality in a safe, controlled environment. Whether it's the power dynamics in a teacher/student scenario or the nurturing aspects of a doctor/patient interaction, role-playing can offer a playful yet profound way to connect with partners. It's a canvas for creativity, enabling participants to explore fantasies and scenarios that would be impossible or impractical in real life.

    For many, role-playing is a way to explore taboo or forbidden aspects of their desires in a healthy, consensual manner. It can involve elaborate scenarios, costumes, and props, or be as simple as adopting different personas with minimal accessories. The key is the mutual creation of a shared fantasy, with clear boundaries and consent, allowing for an escape from routine and the exploration of new dimensions of desire.

18. #18Impact Play

    Keys: Impact Play · Secondary: spank

    Impact play is a sensory-rich experience that can range from gentle taps to more intense strikes. It's not solely about the physical sensation but also the anticipation, the sound, the power dynamics, and the trust involved in allowing someone to exert control over one's body in such a direct manner. The endorphin rush often associated with impact play can lead to what is referred to as "subspace," a state of deep relaxation and bliss for the receiver.

    Safety and technique are paramount in impact play. Understanding the safe zones on the body to hit, the intensity of strikes, and the tools used (from hands to paddles, crops, and whips) requires knowledge and practice. Aftercare, the process of caring for one another physically and emotionally after a session, is also a crucial aspect, helping partners to reconnect, discuss the experience, and provide comfort.

19. #19Sensory Deprivation

    Keys: Sensory Deprivation

    Sensory deprivation in a sexual context is about removing one or more senses to enhance others, creating an intense and focused experience. By limiting sight with a blindfold, sound with headphones, or touch by restraining movement, the remaining senses become heightened. This can lead to more acute sensations from touch, smell, and taste, and a deeper emotional connection between partners as trust plays a crucial role in these scenarios.

    Exploring sensory deprivation can deepen emotional intimacy for better sex, as one partner relinquishes control and the other takes on a caretaking role, navigating the experience with attention and care. The vulnerability and trust involved in sensory deprivation play can lead to powerful emotional and physical experiences, highlighting the importance of communication, consent, and respect for boundaries.

20. #20Pet Play

    Keys: Pet Play · Secondary: furry

    Pet play is a dynamic and playful form of role-playing that involves one partner taking on the role of a pet (such as a puppy, kitten, or pony) and the other taking on the role of owner or caretaker. This kink allows individuals to explore different aspects of their personality, such as innocence, loyalty, care, and discipline. It can be therapeutic, providing a space for relaxation and escape from human responsibilities.

    Costumes, accessories (like collars, leashes, and toys), and behaviors mimicking those of the chosen animal characterize pet play. It's not just about the physical aspect but also the mental and emotional states, allowing for a deep level of role immersion. Pet play can involve training sessions, playtime, and even competitions, creating a community where participants can share experiences and explore their roles safely.

21. #21Foot Fetish

    Keys: Foot Fetish

    Foot fetishism is a profound admiration and erotic interest in feet. It can involve various activities such as massaging, kissing, smelling, and tickling feet, as well as the use of feet in sexual activities. For many, the attraction lies in the shape, size, and appearance of feet, as well as the symbolic power dynamics—worshiping at someone's feet can signify submission, while having one's feet worshiped can signify dominance.

    The appeal of fetishism can also be linked to the sensory experiences it offers— the textures, temperatures, and sensations associated with feet. Engaging with a foot fetish can be a deeply personal and intimate act, offering

22. #22Exhibitionism and Voyeurism

    Keys: Exhibitionism and Voyeurism · Secondary: Exhibitionism, Voyeurism

    Exhibitionism involves deriving pleasure from being seen or watched by others while engaged in sexual activities. Conversely, voyeurism is about obtaining pleasure from watching others in sexual scenarios. Both rely on consent and understanding the boundaries of all involved parties to be explored safely and legally.

23. #23Latex and Leather Fetishes

    Keys: Latex and Leather Fetishes

    Latex and Leather Fetishes involve a specific interest in the materials themselves—latex, leather, and other similar materials. The appeal can be tactile, visual, or related to the sense of power or identity these materials can convey. Outfits, accessories, and gear made from these materials are often used in various sexual and fetishistic activities.

24. #24Age Play

    Keys: Age Play

    Age Play involves adults consenting to role-play different ages, often within a BDSM context. This can include "little" roles, where one partner takes on a child-like persona, and a "caregiver" role, where the other partner cares for them. It's a way to explore dynamics of care, protection, and sometimes discipline, within agreed boundaries.

25. #25Public Groping

    Keys: Public Groping

    Frotteurism is the fetish of touching strangers in a crowded place, like on public transportation. Most folks know this as “groping,” which is nonconsensual and doesn’t pass SSC or RACK. Not OK.

26. #26Breeding

    Keys: Breeding

    Those with a breeding fantasy feel sexually aroused by the thought of impregnating or becoming impregnated by their partner(s).

27. #27Inappropriate partners

    Keys: Inappropriate partners

    With age gaps comes the territory of inappropriate or off-limits partners, like a family member’s best friend or a married teacher. It depends on the dynamic — and the audience — but some crushes are taboo based on proximity.

28. #28Incest

    Keys: Incest · Secondary: Family Sex

    This fantasy involves engaging in sexual activity with a family member, including step-siblings or parents. Most countries outlaw this behavior and consider it deviant due to social, moral, and biological reasons.

29. #29Creampie

    Keys: Creampie

    A Creampie (also known as internal ejaculation, and, typically in same-sex contexts, as a breeding) is a sexual act, commonly featured in hardcore pornography, in which a man ejaculates inside his partner's vagina or anus without the use of a condom, resulting in visible seeping or dripping of semen from the orifice.

30. #30Facial

    Keys: Facial

    A facial is a sexual activity in which a man ejaculates semen onto the face of one or more sexual partners. A facial is a form of non-penetrative sex, though it is generally performed after some other means of sexual stimulation, such as vaginal sex, anal sex, oral sex, manual sex or masturbation. Facials are regularly portrayed in pornographic films and videos, often as a way to close a scene.

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