Your Narcissistic Parents

mom: narcissistic, after arguments with your dad, she always says that your dad loves you very much but its pretty obvious to you that love isn't supposed to hurt. she blames you for things that aren't your fault. bullies you, belittles you. find the flaws and everyone else but herself. it's extremely hard for her to apologize or take accountability. oh but no bite when it comes to others but when it comes to you she's ready to jump down your throat. makes promises but never keeps them. makes you feel little and unloved always puts your dad before you. always takes dad side knowing he's wrong. always criticizes you. she thinks that expressing how you feel is 'disrespectful' is very entitled and thinks you owe them something. throws the smallest things back up in your face.

if she's mad at your father she will take it out on you. complains that you're always in your room but never makes you feel welcome outside of your room. is jealous of your connections with your friends or other relationships. will always try to low-key sabotage your upcoming's and wealth. she never seems like she's happy for your accomplishments and brushes them off.

dad: narcissistic, mentally, emotionally, physically and verbally abusive. never says sorry, is extremely unapologetic, but knows right from wrong but still decides to treat you or your mother terribly. he blames you for things that aren't your fault. bullies you, belittles you find flaws in everyone else but himself self-absorbed self-centered. it's extremely hard for him to take accountability or face the music. will easily believe other people but won't believe you getting you in trouble. is delusional. thanks the world revolves around them. makes promises but never keeps them. gets mad when you tell him 'no' is very entitled and thinks you owe them something.

if he's mad at your mother he'll take it out on you if he's mad at anything he'll take it out on you. if someone outside of the house made him mad he will give you an attitude like it's your fault, like you're the one responsible. complains that you're on your phone and stuck in your room all the time but never makes the environment outside of it welcoming or comfortable enough for you to want to exit your room. he always feels like he has to put his two cents in. refuses to knock before entering your room

THEY CANNOT HURT YOU IN ANY WAY PHYSICALLY OR EMOTIONALLY even when they're united. their talking voices are gone but they can only make noises

a white well lit room with a projector and two chairs that are facing back to back from each other your parents are tied in those chairs bound with no other choice but to listen to you and to hear your voice to hear your cries. almost like an interrogation room.