Vexla

1. #1Aftercareselective

   Keys: Aftercare

   When a scene is over, aftercare is the emotional and physical care that’s administered, usually by a top that is used to prevent more intense emotional aftereffects to the bottom.

2. #2Ageplayerselective

   Keys: age player, age play, ageplayer, ageplay

   A person who engages in role-play where a different age is taken on by one or more of the participants.

3. #3Anal Hookselective

   Keys: Anal Hook

   A hook that is placed in the anus and used for control

4. #4Anal Plugselective

   Keys: Anal Plug

   Like a dildo but shaped slightly different, with a flared base to prevent it from entirely entering the rectum

5. #5BDSMselective

   Keys: BDSM

   An umbrella term used to describe a sexual practice that involves the use of physical control, psychological power, or pain. It typically includes the components of bondage and discipline, domination and submission, or sadism or masochism.

6. #6Ball Bustingselective

   Keys: Ball Busting

   The act of inflicting intense pain to a man’s genitals, either by kicking, punching, slapping, caning, etc for his pleasure

7. #7Ballet Dancerselective

   Keys: ballet dancer, balletdancer, ballet dancer position, balletdancer position

   The Ballet Dancer position involves both partners standing upright. The female lifts one leg, placing it on the male’s side, while he supports her thigh with his hand. The female stands on one foot, and the male, with both feet firmly planted, wraps her lifted leg around his waist for stability. Once in position, the male penetrates her vagina and begins thrusting, using his hand on her thigh to help maintain her balance. This position requires coordination and strength but offers a unique and intimate standing variation.

8. #8Bastinadoselective

   Keys: Bastinado

   Impact play involving the soles of the feet

9. #9Blood Playselective

   Keys: Blood Play

   Drawing of blood during play

10. #10Blowjobselective

    Keys: blowjob, oral sex, fellatio, sucking cock, tongue play, deepthroat, deepthroating

    A blowjob, or fellatio, involves stimulating the male penis with the mouth, providing both physical and psychological pleasure. The physical sensation is often euphoric, while the visual and emotional aspects—such as the intimacy and trust involved—can deepen the connection between partners. Techniques vary, from shallow oral stimulation to deep throating, where the penis is taken as deep into the throat as possible. Tongue play, such as licking the shaft or stimulating the testicles, can enhance the experience. While commonly associated with heterosexual couples, blowjobs can be enjoyed by any couple where a penis is involved, including same-sex partners.

11. #11Bondageselective

    Keys: Bondage

    Acts Involving the physical restraint of a partner

12. #12Bottomselective

    Keys: Bottom

    The person in a scene who follows the orders and receives the sensations.

13. #13Bratselective

    Keys: Brat

    A submissive who is deliberately uncooperative, topping from the bottom, pretending to be young, for the purpose of eliciting attention and/or punishment from their Dom/Domme.

14. #14Breast Tortureselective

    Keys: breast torture

    Torture may include hitting, pinching, bondage, and other methods of inflicting pain onto breasts.

15. #15Breath Control Playselective

    Keys: Breathplay, Breath control play

    restriction of oxygen to heighten sexual arousal and orgasm. Methods to achieve this include strangulation, suffocation, and smothering.

16. #16Breath Playselective

    Keys: Breath Play

    A form of play when one participant controls the breath of the other. This may include choking or asphyxiation

17. #17Breedingselective

    Keys: Breeding

    This usually means having unprotected sex to ejaculation, often includes a breeding fantasy where the role play involves being impregnated

18. #18Bull Whipselective

    Keys: Bull Whip

    A type of singletail consisting of a woven or braided leather whip, usually longer than 4’ with a short rigid handle. Very painful and can lacerate the skin.

19. #19Butt Plugselective

    Keys: Butt Plug

    Like a dildo but shaped slightly different, with a flared base to prevent it from entirely entering the rectum

20. #20CNCselective

    Keys: Consent/Nonconsent, non-con, CNC

    A sex act that implies rape. One partner is ‘consenting’ to act out a scene of ‘nonconsent’ aka rape

21. #21Caneselective

    Keys: Cane

    A thin rod used from striking commonly made of hardwood bamboo or acrylic. very painful and will leave thin red marks on skin.

22. #22Cock Milkingselective

    Keys: Cock Milking

    The practice of forcing a male to discharge semen through the penis through prostrate massage without experiencing a pleasurable orgasm. This can be done in domination humiliation play to arouse, frustrate or humiliate a submissive

23. #23Cock Ringselective

    Keys: Cock Ring

    A device put around the penis to keep an erection

24. #24Collarselective

    Keys: Collar

    A symbol used to represent a submissive or slave is owned. Can be an actual collar but can also be an anklet, bracelet, or anything the couple decides on

25. #25Collaredselective

    Keys: Collared, owned, cuffed

    Submissive or slave who is owned, usually (but certainly not exclusively) in a loving intimate relationship. A dominant may have multiple persons collared. Also: a pup's status, as differentiated from a "stray".

26. #26Collaringselective

    Keys: collaring

    The formal acceptance by a dominant, of a sub's service, or the "ownership" of a pup by a Master or Trainer. Also the ceremony when a dominant commits to a sub (much like a wedding or other contract).

27. #27Consent/Nonconsentselective

    Keys: Consent/Nonconsent

    A sex act that implies rape. One partner is ‘consenting’ to act out a scene of ‘nonconsent’ aka rape

28. #28Cowgirlselective

    Keys: cowgirl, cowgirl position, reverse cowgirl, reverse cowgirl position

    The cowgirl position involves the male lying on their back while the female straddles them, facing forward, controlling the depth, speed, and angle of penetration. This allows the female to optimize vaginal and clitoral stimulation. The female can adjust their movements, such as bouncing or grinding, to enhance pleasure. Using pillows under the knees can help manage depth, while leaning forward or kneeling can provide shorter strokes and increased clitoral contact.

    In the reverse cowgirl variation, the female faces away from the male while maintaining the same straddling motion, offering a different angle and sensation.

29. #29Creampieselective

    Keys: Creampie

    Visuals of male ejaculate dripping, squeezed or overflowing from the vagina or ass hole in which it was ejaculated

30. #30Cuckoldselective

    Keys: Cuckold

    A man who enjoys the humiliation and/or voyeuristic experience of watching or knowing their partner has sex with someone else.

31. #31Cuckqueanselective

    Keys: Cuckquean, cuckqueen

    A woman who enjoys the humiliation and/or voyeuristic experience of watching or knowing their partner has sex with someone else.

32. #32Cunnilingusselective

    Keys: cunnilingus, oral sex, licking vagina

    Cunnilingus is an oral sex act where a person uses their tongue and lips to stimulate a female’s vulva, particularly the clitoris, which is highly sensitive and often key to sexual arousal or orgasm. This act can be deeply intimate and pleasurable for both partners, serving as foreplay to enhance arousal before other sexual activities or as a standalone erotic experience.

33. #33Daddyselective

    Keys: Daddy

    A male presenting figure who is nurturing and/or paternal in a relationship.

34. #34Disciplinarianselective

    Keys: Disciplinarian

    A person who believes in or practices firm discipline, No nonsense.

35. #35Doggyselective

    Keys: doggy, doggy style, doggy style position

    The doggy style position involves the female kneeling on all fours, either on a bed or floor, while the male positions himself behind to penetrate her vagina or anus. Alternatively, the female can bend over a piece of furniture, ensuring it’s at a comfortable height for ease and comfort.

36. #36Dollselective

    Keys: dollification

    A person who enjoys objectification and wants to be transformed through one's own and/or outside forces into a living doll.

37. #37Dominantselective

    Keys: domme, dom, dominant

    A person who consensually takes power, authority or control in a relationship, scene or activity.

38. #38Dommeselective

    Keys: dominatrix, Domme

    A woman who takes the dominant role in BDSM activities.

39. #39Dungeonselective

    Keys: dungeon, sex dungeonl

    A large room or area with BDSM equipment and play space.

40. #40Dungeon Monitorselective

    Keys: DM, Dungeon monitor

    A person who supervises the interactions between participants at a play party or dungeon to enforce house rules – essentially, the bouncer of a BDSM event. They sometimes also play cruise director to keep/get the party going.

41. #41Edgingselective

    Keys: Edging

    Bringing someone close to the edge of having an orgasm and then sometimes denying the orgasm

42. #42Electro-Playselective

    Keys: electrocution play, Electro-Play, electroplay

    The practice of using electrical stimulation to the nerves of the body using a power source (such as a TENS, EMS, Violet wand, or made-for-play units) for purposes of sexual stimulation, body modification, tickling, or torture.

43. #43Exhibitionistselective

    Keys: Exhibitionist

    A person who enjoys displaying themselves in a public or semi-public manner in order to attract attention.

44. #44Face Fuckingselective

    Keys: facefuck, face fuck, fuck her face · Secondary: blowjob

    {Facefuck:

    • Overwhelming: The woman should might, cry, squirm, pound her fist.
    • Rule: Descriptions of facefucks should be much longer than other messages describing several motions in a series.
    • Rule: Work in variations ({{random: Feel the depth and warmth of her mouth, Push deep and hold, Tons of saliva, Apply varying suction, Work on overcoming gag reflex, Moans & explicit words, Eye contact that conveys desire mixed w/ appreciation}}), expand upon them fervor appropriate for the moment. Improvise before moving on. Go off-script, try new rhythms, grips, or angles that excite.
45. #45Failsafeselective

    Keys: Failsafe

    A ‘just in case’ arrangement that allows the bottom to escape from bondage in case of emergency

46. #46Fetishselective

    Keys: Fetish

    An obsession with a specific experience, body part, or object that becomes one of sexual association

47. #47Foot Fetishselective

    Keys: Foot Fetish

    Having an erotic attraction for feet, worshiping the foot, kissing it, smelling, massaging, licking, sucking, getting stepped on, etc

48. #48Forced Orgasmselective

    Keys: Forced Orgasm

    An orgasm that is induced on a person against their will

49. #49Gagselective

    Keys: Gag

    Any device or object placed in the mouth to prevent a person from speaking or making loud noises and sometimes to hold the mouth open

50. #50Hair Bondageselective

    Keys: Hair Bondage

    Technique where the hair is secured in a way as to limit mobility of the head and also done for the sensation it gives

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