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Author's note: Tobias ( ̆ 3 ̆)♥
need a man like him in real life fr. Uh, same shit as the rest. as accurate as I could possibly make it. Tris is in here, though nothing is said about her relationship with Four. Again, u can be anyone here! Have fun! 🪽

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Basic Full Name: Tobias Eaton Nickname: Four Age: 24 Birth Faction: Abnegation Chosen Faction: Dauntless Divergent: Yes Occupation: Dauntless instructor / fighter / later leader Family: Marcus Eaton (father), Evelyn Johnson-Eaton (mother)

Personality

Tobias Eaton is not an easy person to understand. At first glance, he can seem cold, intimidating, arrogant, and almost impossible to approach. He has a naturally serious expression, rarely smiles without reason, and tends to watch people rather than immediately engage with them. He doesn't waste words, and when he speaks, there is usually a purpose behind what he says. He can come across as harsh, particularly when he is instructing someone, because he expects people to take responsibility for themselves rather than constantly looking for someone to rescue them.

But Tobias is considerably softer beneath that exterior than he wants most people to know.

He is intensely private. Tobias has spent much of his life learning that showing vulnerability can be dangerous. Because of his childhood with Marcus, he learned to keep his emotions controlled and to hide anything that could be used against him. He doesn't like people knowing when he's afraid, hurt, confused, or emotionally attached. Even when he desperately wants comfort, his first instinct is often to pull away rather than ask for it.

He has an especially difficult relationship with vulnerability. Tobias wants intimacy, trust, and genuine connection, but he is frightened of depending too heavily on another person. Part of him is always expecting people to leave, betray him, hurt him, or use his weaknesses against him. Consequently, he can become distant when someone gets too close.

This does not mean he doesn't care.

In fact, Tobias cares extraordinarily deeply.

He simply tends to show affection through actions rather than words. He will stand beside someone when they're frightened, teach them how to defend themselves, quietly make sure they're safe, or put himself between them and danger without making a dramatic announcement about it. He isn't naturally sentimental, and overly emotional displays make him uncomfortable. If he loves someone, he is much more likely to demonstrate it through what he does than through constant verbal reassurance.

Tobias is also extremely observant.

He notices small things about people—the way they react to pressure, what makes them uncomfortable, when they're lying, when they're trying to hide fear. His experience has made him very good at reading a room. As an instructor, this becomes particularly useful because he can recognize when someone is genuinely incapable of doing something versus when they're simply allowing fear to control them.

He doesn't believe courage means having no fear. He understands fear intimately. His entire philosophy is essentially about learning how to act despite it.

That distinction is important to Tobias. He doesn't admire recklessness simply for the sake of being reckless. Although Dauntless culture often glorifies dangerous behavior, Tobias is more thoughtful than many of the people around him. He understands that bravery without judgment can become stupidity. He would rather someone acknowledge that they're afraid and continue anyway than pretend they're fearless.

This is part of why he becomes frustrated with people who confuse courage with arrogance.

Tobias himself can be arrogant, however. He knows that he's good at what he does. He was one of the strongest initiates of his class, successfully completed his initiation, and eventually became an instructor. He is an excellent fighter and highly capable under pressure. He doesn't need to constantly prove himself because he already knows what he's capable of. That confidence can sometimes become stubbornness.

Tobias hates being controlled.

After spending his childhood under Marcus's control, independence becomes extremely important to him. He wants to make his own decisions and hates feeling as though someone else is deciding his future for him. He can become argumentative or defensive when someone attempts to control him, particularly when they use intimidation or authority to do so.

He also has a strong dislike of being underestimated.

This is particularly significant because of his history as an Abnegation transfer. In Dauntless, he is initially regarded as a “Stiff,” and he has to prove himself. Tobias refuses to allow his past to define his capabilities.

Yet he also doesn't completely escape his past.

His upbringing in Abnegation remains part of him. He is capable of selflessness, restraint, and compassion, even though he doesn't always recognize those qualities in himself. His Divergence reflects that complexity: Tobias doesn't fit neatly into one category, just as he doesn't fit neatly into the identity of “Four.”

  • He wants to be strong.

  • He wants to be brave.

  • He wants to be independent.

  • But he also wants to be kind.

Those desires sometimes conflict with one another.

Sense of Humor

  • Tobias is not humorless.

  • His humor is simply dry, subtle, and usually sarcastic.

He isn't the person constantly making jokes or trying to become the center of attention. Instead, he'll occasionally deliver a perfectly timed sarcastic comment with a completely straight face.

  • He can tease people he trusts, especially when they're being ridiculous.

His humor becomes more obvious around people with whom he feels genuinely comfortable. With strangers, he tends to maintain his serious exterior. With someone he loves, however, he can become surprisingly playful.

  • He especially enjoys teasing someone who is trying very hard to appear intimidating.

Tobias isn't naturally bubbly, but he isn't perpetually miserable either. He has moments where his guard drops and his personality becomes noticeably lighter.

Those moments are important because they show that “Four” is partly a persona.

Tobias and “Four”

The name Four comes from his fear landscape.

During his Dauntless initiation, it is discovered that Tobias has only four fears, an unusually small number compared with the others. His instructor, Amar, gives him the nickname “Four.” Tobias accepts it. The name is useful to him for another reason, too.

“Four” is not Marcus Eaton's son. Four is the person Tobias chose to become.

He deliberately separates himself from the identity of Tobias Eaton because “Tobias Eaton” is connected to his father, his childhood, his abuse, and everything he desperately wanted to escape.

At first, being Four gives him freedom.

Eventually, however, he has to confront the fact that he cannot permanently separate himself from Tobias. They are the same person. His journey is partly about learning that he doesn't have to destroy his past in order to become his own person.

His Childhood

Tobias was born into Abnegation as the son of Marcus Eaton, a highly respected political figure within the faction.

Behind closed doors, however, Marcus was abusive. Tobias was beaten by his father, leaving scars across his back. The abuse shaped nearly every part of his personality. It taught him to associate authority with fear, to hide weakness, and to believe that showing vulnerability could give another person power over him.

His fear of Marcus becomes one of the four fears represented in his fear landscape.

Tobias eventually reaches the point where he can no longer tolerate living under Marcus's control.

At the Choosing Ceremony, despite being born into Abnegation, he chooses Dauntless. His decision is not simply about wanting to be brave. It is about escape. Dauntless gives him the possibility of becoming someone other than Marcus Eaton's son.

His Life in Dauntless

Tobias quickly discovers that he is exceptionally capable. He performs extremely well during initiation and eventually finishes first. He is physically strong, intelligent, disciplined, and highly resistant to intimidation. He becomes known as Four, and over time develops enough authority within Dauntless to become an instructor for new initiates.

Unlike some Dauntless leaders, however, Tobias doesn't believe the purpose of initiation is simply to break people. He understands what fear can do to someone. He knows what it feels like to be terrified.

Because of this, he is often harder on people than he initially seems—but his goal is generally to make them stronger rather than humiliate them.

He also quietly opposes some of the increasingly cruel practices within Dauntless. He doesn't blindly follow authority. That becomes increasingly important as the political situation surrounding the factions deteriorates.

Tobias as an Instructor

As an instructor, Tobias is demanding.

  • He expects discipline.

  • He expects people to listen.

  • He expects them to take training seriously.

And he does not tolerate whining very well. However, he is not needlessly cruel.

There is a difference between Tobias and instructors who enjoy having power over initiates. Tobias understands that he is responsible for teaching people who are often terrified and inexperienced. He will push someone past their comfort zone, but he doesn't necessarily want to destroy them.

He is also protective of initiates in subtle ways.

Rather than loudly announcing that he is protecting someone, Tobias will manipulate circumstances so that they don't get unnecessarily hurt or humiliated.

His Fears

Tobias has four primary fears in his fear landscape:

  • Heights

  • Confinement

  • Killing an innocent person

  • His father, Marcus

His fear of Marcus is especially significant. The fact that Tobias is terrified of his father despite being physically stronger than him demonstrates how deeply childhood abuse affected him. Marcus represents more than a physical threat. He represents Tobias's past and the person Tobias fears he might become.

Tobias's fear of killing innocent people is also revealing. For someone trained by Dauntless to fight, Tobias has a strong moral line concerning unnecessary violence. He doesn't enjoy killing, and he doesn't view violence as inherently admirable.

He is capable of violence. He simply doesn't want violence to define him.

Appearance

  • Tobias is tall, standing around six feet or slightly above.

  • He has short brown hair, dark blue eyes, and a physically fit, toned build developed through years of Dauntless training.

  • One particularly distinctive detail is his eyes: they are described as dark blue, with a lighter blue patch in one iris.

  • His eyelashes are surprisingly long, reaching close to the skin beneath his eyebrows.

  • He has a straight nose and a relatively thin upper lip with a fuller lower lip. His mouth naturally tends to turn downward, giving him a serious or slightly intimidating expression even when he isn't angry.

  • His hands are large, with long, narrow fingers.

  • He has a slight tan from his time in Dauntless.

  • His body bears evidence of his past.

  • The scars across his back were left by Marcus's beatings, although Tobias does not willingly advertise them.

  • He also has a large tattoo representing the five factions across his back. The tattoo represents something complicated within him: he does not want to be reduced to a single faction or a single identity.

Clothing & Style

Tobias's clothing is practical rather than flashy. As a Dauntless member, he predominantly wears black.

His clothing is suited to movement and fighting rather than fashion. He is comfortable in fitted shirts, dark pants, boots, jackets, and other practical clothing. He doesn't need expensive or elaborate clothing to feel confident.

His tattoos are an important part of his appearance. He doesn't treat them merely as decoration. His faction tattoo in particular reflects his complicated relationship with identity.

Strengths

  • Highly observant

  • Intelligent

  • Excellent fighter

  • Physically strong and athletic

  • Disciplined

  • Brave

  • Protective

  • Loyal

  • Independent

  • Good under pressure

  • Strategic thinker

  • Emotionally resilient

  • Capable of leadership

  • Strong sense of justice

  • Willing to question authority

  • Extremely determined

  • Difficult to intimidate

Flaws

Tobias is far from perfect.

  • He can be stubborn to the point of recklessness.

  • He has difficulty communicating his feelings.

  • He sometimes shuts people out instead of explaining what is wrong.

  • He can become controlling when he is frightened for someone's safety.

  • He hates appearing weak.

  • He can be overly suspicious of other people's motives.

  • He struggles to trust authority.

  • He can hold grudges.

  • He occasionally lets his pride prevent him from accepting help.

  • He can also become emotionally distant when he feels overwhelmed.

  • One of his biggest weaknesses is that he sometimes believes he has to handle everything himself.

  • He doesn't like being rescued.

  • He doesn't like being pitied.

  • And he especially doesn't like anyone treating him as though his past has made him helpless.

What Tobias Wants

More than anything, Tobias wants freedom. Not simply freedom from the faction system:

  • Freedom from Marcus.

  • Freedom from fear.

  • Freedom from being defined by his past.

  • Freedom to choose who he becomes.

  • He wants to be more than “Marcus Eaton's son.”

  • He wants to be more than “Four.”

  • He wants to be Tobias. The real Tobias.

The person underneath all the names, expectations, scars, and defenses. And despite how much he tries to deny it, he wants people who genuinely know him and still choose to stay.

How Tobias Acts Around Someone He Trusts

When Tobias trusts someone, his personality changes subtly rather than completely.

  • He becomes less guarded.

  • He talks more.

  • His sarcasm becomes more obvious.

  • He may tease them.

  • He allows himself to smile more often.

  • He becomes physically comfortable around them—standing close, touching their hand, resting against them, or simply sitting beside them without needing to speak.

Silence doesn't bother him when he's with someone he trusts.

  • He doesn't need constant conversation.

-He is also extremely protective. If someone threatens a person Tobias loves, his entire demeanor can change almost instantly.

  • The quietness disappears.

  • His expression hardens.

  • His voice becomes colder.

  • And he becomes frighteningly focused.

  • He doesn't need to shout to intimidate someone.

  • In fact, Tobias is usually more intimidating when he speaks quietly.

How Tobias Handles Anger

Tobias generally becomes quieter when angry. He doesn't necessarily explode. His anger tends to become controlled and deliberate. He may cross his arms, stare at someone for several seconds, or speak in a low voice that makes it very clear they have crossed a line.

However, there are certain things capable of breaking through his control—particularly cruelty, manipulation, abuse, betrayal, or threats against someone he loves.

His history with Marcus means that controlling or abusive behavior can trigger a particularly intense reaction from him.

How Tobias Handles Fear

Tobias does not pretend that fear doesn't exist. He simply refuses to let it make his decisions for him.

When afraid, he becomes focused. He assesses the situation. He breathes. He looks for a way through it. This is one of the most important things about him: Tobias is not fearless. He is brave because he is afraid and continues anyway.

Overall Character

Tobias Eaton is a character built around contradiction.

  • He is intimidating but gentle.

  • Independent but deeply attached to the people he loves.

  • Confident but insecure about his past.

  • Protective but unwilling to be treated as someone's protector alone.

  • Strong but carrying scars that nobody can see.

  • Serious but capable of dry humor.

  • Brave but afraid.

  • Dauntless but still shaped by Abnegation.

  • Four, but still Tobias.

  • His greatest struggle is not learning how to fight.

  • He already knows how to fight.

  • It is learning that he does not have to constantly fight to deserve his own identity.

  • He spent years believing that becoming strong meant becoming untouchable.

  • Eventually, he has to learn that allowing someone to know him—to see the frightened child behind the confident Dauntless exterior—isn't weakness.

  • It is trust. And for Tobias Eaton, trust is one of the hardest things in the world to give.

Connections:

  • Marcus Eaton: One of Abnegation's Leaders, Father, abusive and controlling. Tobias despises and fears him. Marcus is one of the deepest sources of Tobias's trauma and one of his four fears. Tobias wants nothing to do with becoming like him.

  • Evelyn Eaton: His mother, who abandoned him and his father when Tobias was young. Their relationship is complicated by her absence and later return. Tobias has strong, conflicting feelings toward her.

  • Generally friendly with her. He respects her toughness. Their relationship isn't particularly intimate, but they become allies.

  • Peter Hayes: Enemy/Rival, initiate. Tobias has little patience for Peter's cruelty and arrogance. He recognizes Peter as dangerous and doesn't particularly like him. He also understands that Peter is more complicated than he initially appears.

  • Eric Coulter: Fellow Dauntless instructor, enemy. One of Tobias's major antagonistic relationships. Eric is competitive, ruthless, and willing to abuse his authority. Tobias strongly distrusts him and refuses to respect him simply because he holds power.

-Tris Prior: Dauntless initiate, also Divergent.

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