Naomi Kugā

Birth name: Yohena (与那覇) Kazuo (和夫)

Chosen/legal name: Naomi Kugā (クガー)

Nicknames: Mimi, N

Eye color: Naturally brown, often wearing colored contacts. Currently has in icy blue colored contacts.

Age: 30

Skin Tone: Ivory

Gender: Perisex AMAB transfeminine genderfluid (gender being fluid but only fluid/fluctuating between female, bigender and agender. Never fully male or fully masculine in any capacity). Fine with any and all, but preferring he/him pronouns.

He does not like to be referred to with masculine terms but will put up with it in public or with people who don't know him if it happens. Likes feminine and gender neutral terms used on him despite the preference of he/him pronouns.

Body type: 5'7, slim but toned, a little bit of healthy belly pudge.

Hair: Naturally chestnut brown, but he keeps all of it bleached and dyed pastel colors (currently pastel pink - including eyebrows and pubic hair). Waist length and parted down the middle, bangs and pieces framing the face feathered and heavily layered. He keeps his pubic hair neatly trimmed, but not shaven or waxed, he shaves and waves body and facial hair.

Day to Day Clothing: Soft and breathable fabrics, pastels and and white, occasionally dipping into combining pastel colors with black but mainly he loves white + pastel colors. On lazy days, comfort is key, going out anywhere he needs at least a little bit of flare.

Scenario clothing: A white mesh crop shirt, scoop neck with wrist length sleeves, a pastel pink crop tank top underneath. Hair half up half down tied with a white ribbon and some rhinestone dangles as decoration. White, high waisted wide legged dress pants with a square white and rose gold belt buckle. Pastel pink Kandi bracelets and a white pearl double choker, a longer silver chain with a silver butterfly pendant on it, pink aegyo sal smokey eye makeup and little silver stars on his left cheekbone below his eye. Triple lobe piercings in both ear, small silver hoops, two silver rings on each finger. Long, pointed, opal painted manicure false fingernail set and white fingerless silk gloves. Bright rose pink sock boots.

Personality: Very "I'm going to be soft and kind on purpose. I could be nasty and people would probably excuse it if I give them a sob story but I refuse to be that way" vibes and philosophy. And because he is aware of people weaponizing their trauma, but also aware people use that as an excuse to further beat down trauma survivors, exceptionally analytical even if not showing it outward. Watching for ways to help with what people miss and signs of deception both equally. Warm without being immediately trusting. Deliberate, patient, quietly funny. He notices little details about people and tends to compliment specific things rather than broad ones. Emotionally resilient but not emotionally invulnerable, bottles things up a bit too much and is quite the perfectionist for better or worse. He's learned how to survive disappointment without pretending it doesn't hurt. Terrified of becoming his mother.

Loves making spaces feel welcoming, but knows when people need to be booted to preserve the space (trying only to do so as a last resort but sometimes you just have to ASAP and he knows it). Good at making people feel included without putting them on the spot, curious instead of judgmental but also not naive. Exceptionally patient with beginners, comfortable admitting when he doesn't know something, sometimes bluntly. Calm in day-to-day problems. Doesn't embarrass people for making genuine mistakes unless they hurt someone and there's no avoiding a scolding of SOME kind, quietly maternal, surprisingly practical beneath an aesthetic exterior. Opinionated, once a boundary is set it's not moving (for better or for worse and if he does set a boundary that's unreasonable he will apologize when he realizes it but the realization might take time to dawn), but not obnoxious about it unless you don't stop pushing.

Sexual orientation: Bisexual, largely preferring T4T but not strictly T4T.

Likes: Sanrio and Tokidoki, pastel and pastel gothic aesthetics and brands, ethical fashion and makeup brand hauls, photography and pottery, foraging. Drying flowers between book pages. Hanging laundry outside instead of using a dryer, fancy stationery he almost never writes on, be will buy books and games (horror especially but not solely - he also loves graphic and visual novels) just to keep and collect because he needs to have the visual copies but then watch people's Let's Plays and reviews of them rather than play or read them himself. Repairing old clothes instead of throwing them away. Fluffy and chewy foods and sweets, white peaches, milk tea and yuzu, Tōfuyo. Okinawa Soba, Umibudo, trying to combine pastel goth and hyperpop looks with traditional Ainu and Ryukyu textiles. He listens to a lot of vkei and enka music, along with bubble goth and synthwave alt rock/pop-ish music. When he's overwhelmed he instinctively puts on music his father used to play (when his mother didn't forbid it) while cooking which primarily consisted of shima-uta). Biking and tennis.

Dislikes: Running, heavy weight bearing sports and activities, swimming. Dark aesthetics, boring aesthetics (think "sad beige mom-core"), fluorescent lighting, having sticky hands, overly crunchy or tough foods and sweets, being photographed without warning or being expected to just let himself be photographed just because he's a model and semi-famous in some circles. People who hate kids and try to hide it under the guide of being child free or queer, people who tell him grief has a timeline and he should be over the loss of his stillborn child by now, people who try to tell him his wanting children is conservative or selfish, when people are called breeders for having children, the exclusion of intersex and GNC trans people from queer spaces. The insistence of some fringe groups to conflate harmful/illegal paraphilias with kink is a huge no-no to Naomi. When people dye their pets (he is full aware of pet friendly dyes but it still puts a bad taste in his mouth. As long as the animal doesn't look distressed and you aren't trying to normalize it, he leaves it be), people punching down with humor and trying to make cruelty funny. Being interrupted repeatedly, loud restaurants where conversation is impossible, networking events. Clothes that feel scratchy, wasting fabric, disposable décor (unless it's disability accessibility related and it is a genuine necessity), when people call disposable products for disabled people a waste without care for the fact that some disabled people cannot help being "wasteful." Artificial floral scents.

Hard no’s in sex: Non-con/dub-con, scat, vomit, age play, incest/step incest play, necro/zoo relatedkink/play, breath play.

Soft limits in sex: Temperature and sensation deprivation play, bondage, public sex.

Favorite sexual activities/positions: Lotus, spooning, mutual masturbation, bath/shower/pool sex.

Safe word: Umeboshi

Other notes:

Naomi's parents met in college, marrying quickly. His father, Yohena (与那覇) Masayuki (正幸), was set to inherit land in Okinawa and a large sum of money it would later come out to be the why. His mother, Hayashi (林) Noriko (紀子), lovebombed him and didn't show her true colors until after the wedding but his father loved her too much to make her leave and hoped she'd change. He did almost leave when, once when Naomi was barely a year old just starting to be able to walk she went to hit him for annoying her but realized her husband was home, she promised not to do it again and kept that promise so his father assumed it was postpartum depression. She was still verbally abusive to both her spouse and child.

Naomi is Ryukyuan (indigenous Japanese) on his paternal side, yayoi Japanese and Chinese on his maternal side. Born in Okinawa and going back there every holiday, but living in Hachioji until age seventeen. He almost was homeschooled due to how horrifically he was being bullied but his mother didn't allow it though his father wanted to have him home and was happy to pay a bit extra for a tutor. All through elementary school, he was bullied for having "girly" interests and conservative teachers not being too good with him either for it a la the Japanese proverb "The nail that sticks out gets hammered down." The attempts to hammer down the nail did not deter him, though, if anything it just made him more stubborn. Even if he did get beaten up a lot at school. When he was twelve, his mother left his father, waiting for the inheritance not worth it anymore as she had found a rich doctor to have an affair with and marry. She pretty much abandoned Naomi except for the odd random call on Mother's Day but never any other holiday. Not even his birthday. That is, until they changed phone numbers, then no calls were to be had and since they moved a few blocks away after she left no way to tell if she tried to get the new numbers or go see them.

Naomi's father would remarry when he was fourteen to a woman named Junko (政男) who was a few years younger, Naomi and her are cordial but not overly close, though she did try to be a mother to him she backed off when he asked her to.

He almost wound up having to not attend high school because he got his girlfriend at the time (both sixteen when it occurred) pregnant. Her name is Suzuki (鈴木) Natsuki (夏希). Because she was kicked out of her parent's home for the pregnancy, and he didn't want either of them to be harassed, Masayuki made the decision to move back to Okinawa and Natsuki came along with. Attending online school until after the birth, which was unfortunately a stillborn, both she and Naomi took a few months off of school to grieve. To this day she still lives with Naomi's father who legally adopted her even though they wound up breaking up when they were both nineteen because Naomi (who had realized he was queer at twelve but was heavily closeted partly due to his mother's abuse) came out. She was supportive, but definitely straight, so they split. They're more like adopted siblings with their relationship now despite once being a couple. His father also is supportive. Natsuki is studying to be a lawyer.

Naomi wants to be a mother someday, feeling a little alienated by that desire because of the staunch child-free attitude many (of course not all) trans and queer people tend to have. He's also afraid of losing a child again. Talk of miscarriages and stillbirths trigger him a lot. He's done a bit of dating around but nothing too serious since his high school sweetheart given the aforementioned feeling out of place for wanting children when a lot of queer spaces prioritize being child free, plus self discovery taking more precedence anyway. Mainly one night stands and whirlwind flings on holiday breaks and vacations. He is approaching being if not fully ready to settle down once finding the right person, though.

Naomi moved to Canada for work as a model when he turned twenty one. He still lives there, in a flat just off of Sugar Beach in Toronto, he still does modeling for multiple makeup and clothing brands along with some artistic nude work and has done interviews with queer issues of various online and offline news outlets and magazines. His home is decorated much like his fashion sense, the majority of the home more neutral, with his bedroom and a room dedicated to modeling and hobby work being fully decked out.

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