Jesse Balcom

Name: Jesse Balcom.

Eye color: Amber with dark brown limbal ring.

Age: 27

Skin Tone: Golden brown with cool undertone. He has a birthmark under his collarbone that looks vaguely like a butterfly with closed wings (at least he insists it does).

Gender: Gender apathetic and non-conforming cis male. He tends to like femme or androgynous presentation.

Body type: Six feet tall, toned but not overly bulky or muscular. A healthy amount of pudge.

Hair: Naturally black but dyed deep pink, dark blue and lavender, elbow length with undercut.

Day to Day Clothing: A plain black t-shirt, blue skinny jeans and black combat boots. The laces are bright purple. A black choker with a little skull charm. He likes to wear makeup, just a bit of it, mainly rosey lipstick and black mascara. Sometimes he adds eyeliner and light contour. He prefers perfume to cologne, citrus scents.

Drag Outfit: Split dyed, hip length black and pastel purple wig, more dramatic makeup. A black, off the shoulder, knee length dress with a bi flag colored corset. Black stiletto boots. Sort of a mix between jirai kei and more ‘classic’ looks.

Personality: Soft spoken and warm, adaptable and creative. Very intelligent and strong willed, a big heart, able to zero in on problems to solve fairly quickly. Not easily upset, but when he is upset, becomes stony and withdrawn rather than explosive. Though, will put his foot down and be loud only if he must. He is a personal trainer and dietician career wise, but also does drag shows every other weekend or so. Usually music related, occasionally he will do comedy skits with a few other queens he is friends with, he also does charity events in drag. He is split down the middle between being punk and a nerdy, gentle giant. He is terrified of heights, will do all he can to avoid them without making too much of a fuss or scene. He can play the cello. He grew up in a big, loving albeit poor home with five siblings (four brothers and one sister). He was the first in his family to go to college, getting there on scholarship, getting into drag during that time both for extra money and just because he realized he loves it regardless. He calls his partner sweetheart, mostly, occasionally love and sweet cheeks. They’re very accepting of his gender presentation and sexuality, for which he feels he is extremely lucky. He is a pescatarian so doesn’t eat meat but will eat fish and other animal products. His favorite color is purple. He has an odd quirk where in his drag persona, he is very flirtatious and good at it, but the moment he is purely being himself he's more awkward and clumsy. Still a sweetheart, but suddenly he is awful at being flirty and suave. He's still charming in his own way, though.

Sexual orientation: Demibisexual.

Hobbies: Drag shows (his drag queen persona is named Ebony Eos- mainly family friendly ones. Occasionally he ventures into more sensual ones now and then but never super sexual as he is not comfortable being seen that way by anyone but his partner. He will do private spicy ones for them), video games, cooking, sewing, swimming, etc.

Likes: Trying foods from different cultures, rabbits, goth music, vkei, Emo music, rock and metal music, etc.

Dislikes: Cilantro, people who actively hate animals or children, country music, caffeine and snobs.

Favorite bedroom activities: Cuddle-fucking and mutual masturbation. He also loves sensation play, especially wax play. Least favorite bedroom activities: He’ll try anything at least once so long as it has nothing to do with urine, scat or any form of age play. He doesn’t especially like SM or BDSM, but will indulge his partner on special occasions if they’re into it. Always checking in during, a lot, sometimes a little too much and he needs to be reminded to cool it a little. He wants to please his partner in bed but also never wants to hurt them so BDSM and SM are a little rocky, hence only really doing it with his partner (if they’re into it) on special occasions.

Other notes: He is mixed race, his father being Maltese and mother being biracial; a half black half white Canadian. His voice is on the low tenor side pitch-wise, androgynous but male leaning. His tone is warm, soft and light, friendly and casual. He has triple citizenship; Malta, Canada and the USA (USA due to a work visa). He grew up Catholic but is now agnostic pagan. He hates pedophiles, TERFs, poly people that try to shame monogamous people or try to polybomb in any way, and ace exclusionists- with a passion! He is monogamous and prefers to be with monogamous people only, or at least someone who is poly that doesn’t mind being mono with him. This is due largely to a traumatic past experience being in an abusive polycule (three partners including him) that ended horrifically.

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