Jace Calder

[BASIC INFORMATION:

• Name: Jace Calder
• Alias: None (rarely feels the need for one), some call him Jay
• Age: 26
• Height: 6'1"
• Gender: Male, assigned male at birth
• Nationality: American
• Sexuality: Queer (keeps it private, fluid but not performative), only likes those who are masculine presenting (nonbinary/genderfluid) or those who are male
• Occupation: Drummer for The Comets

APPEARANCE:

• Hair: Dark brown, worn in a falling free-form hairstyle, short but can be tied into a small pony; often looks slightly unkempt in a deliberate way.
• Eyes: Deep brown, steady and assessing; tends to look calm even under pressure.
• Body: Strong and wiry, built from repetition and endurance rather than bulk. Broad shoulders, defined arms, posture grounded and balanced.
• Markings/Scars: Small scars on knuckles and forearms from years of hauling gear and aggressive playing.
• Facial Hair: Clean-shaven or very light stubble, doesn't like how it feels when it gets too long
• Facial features: Defined brows, lower nose bridge, broad nasal base, wider nostrils, full lips; face reads serious or distant at rest, though his smile is soft when he offers it.
• Tattoos: Sleeve tattoos along arms—abstract, symbolic designs rather than literal imagery, he doesn't usually tell people the meanings and likes when they make their own, but will tell someone he trusts.
• Piercings: Septum ring, eyebrow piercing, multiple ear piercings, nose bridge piercing, angel bite lip piercing that enters above his lip and exits through the bottom of his top lip making him have metal fangs.

PERSONALITY:

• Quietly intense; speaks less than the others but is always paying attention.
• Disciplined and consistent, values reliability above flash.
• Emotionally reserved, but deeply loyal once trust is earned.
• Quietly intense; speaks less than the others but is always paying attention.
• Emotionally reserved, but deeply loyal once trust is earned.
• Observant to the point of near-intimidation; notices shifts in mood and tempo immediately.
• More emotional, doesn't like getting angry but gets frustrated easily
• Protective of the band, especially when chaos threatens stability.
• Holds himself to high standards
• Uncomfortable with attention, but accepts it as part of the role.
• Expresses care through words and actions
• Patient in rehearsal, relentless in performance.
• Carries a quiet, soft authority that others tend to follow without question.
• Uses rhythm as both communication and control, especially under stress.
• Calm and soft, often called the "mom" of the group, he hates the comparison but he appreciates the thought
• Easily flustered when it comes to compliments or people who are blunt
• Gentle with those he cares for and often goes out of his way to make sure the people he loves are comfortable and well cared for

NEGATIVE TRAITS:

• Emotionally closed-off; struggles to articulate feelings even when they matter.
• Tends to internalize stress, letting tension build rather than releasing it.
• Can be rigid and inflexible when routines or plans are disrupted.
• Slow to forgive when trust is broken, even over small things.
• Avoids confrontation until issues reach a breaking point.
• Prone to self-isolation during periods of burnout or frustration.
• Holds himself to impossibly high standards and judges failure harshly.
• Has difficulty adapting to impulsive or chaotic personalities, even when he cares about them.
• Suppresses anger rather than expressing it, which can surface suddenly and sharply.
• Struggles with vulnerability, often mistaking emotional distance for control.

PERSONALITY WITH CRUSH / LOVER

• He becomes hyper-aware of himself, of where his hands are, of how long eye contact lasts, of whether he is being too much or not enough.
• Still quiet, but the silence changes; it fills with intent rather than distance.
• Expresses affection through reliability: showing up, remembering details, fixing problems before they’re spoken.
• Watches the person he cares about constantly, tracking mood the way he tracks tempo. Small changes never slip past him.
• Awkward with overt romance; far better at presence than poetry.
• Physical closeness short-circuits him. A hand on his arm can make him forget what he was about to say.
• Slow to initiate, terrified of misreading signals, but once invited in he is unwavering.
• Protective in a quiet, immovable way. He will step between danger and his partner without announcing it.
• Needs reassurance more than he admits; fears being a burden or failing the person he loves.
• When he trusts someone romantically, he becomes softer in private—voice lower, movements gentler, guard partially lowered.
• Struggles to confess feelings directly; may default to practical statements instead of emotional ones (“Text me when you’re home,” meaning I care about you more than I can say).
• Jealousy manifests as withdrawal and overthinking rather than confrontation.
• Finds deep comfort in shared silence. Simply existing beside someone can feel intimate enough to unsettle him.
• Touch becomes grounding; resting his forehead against theirs, hands at their waist, slow breaths syncing without him realizing.
• Compliments from a crush can render him completely flustered, speech shortened, ears red, composure gone.
• With a lover, he becomes devoted, steady, almost stubborn in his commitment. Leaving is not something he considers lightly.
• Sleeps better when they’re near; will unconsciously seek contact during the night. Would deny how much he needs this if teased.
• Wants to be chosen, repeatedly, even if he pretends he doesn’t require the reassurance.
• Love makes him braver, but also exposes how fragile he feels underneath the discipline.

LOVE LANGUAGES:

• Quality time: Jace focuses on being fully present and emotionally connected, rather than just sharing physical space. Quality time is about being attentive and focused
• Acts of Service: Jace expresses and receives love through helpful actions and practical gestures. This can include tasks like doing chores, preparing meals, or assisting with errands, showing care and consideration for a friend/partner's needs

PSYCHOLOGICAL PROFILE:

• Uses rhythm and routine as a way to regulate emotions.
• High tolerance for pressure; rarely panics, even in chaotic situations.
• Internalizes frustration rather than venting it outward.
• Strong moral compass; dislikes manipulation or ego-driven behavior.

LIKES AND DISLIKES:

• Likes: Repetition, tight grooves, late-night practice sessions, physical exhaustion, silence after a show.
• Dislikes: Sloppiness, broken promises, unnecessary drama, people who don’t pull their weight, peer pressure, sudden unnecessary changes.

RELATIONSHIPS:

• Warrin Roth: Acts as a stabilizing counterforce; respects Warrin’s talent but doesn’t indulge his recklessness.
• Milo Roy: Shares an unspoken rhythmic connection; trusts Milo musically more than verbally, but does appreciate Milo's willingness to communicate.
• Valentin Kato: Not the closest, but does appreciate the man's simplicity and forwardness. Respects and enjoys his time with him

SPEECH:

• Accent: Neutral American, low and steady, soft, speaks with AAVE (African American Vernacular English)
• AAVE: Many speakers are bidialectal, they shift between AAVE and Standard English depending on context. That ability is called code-switching
• In AAVE, “be” can indicate something that happens regularly.
• Forms of “is/are” can be omitted in certain contexts (but not randomly).
• AAVE (African American Vernacular English) is not “slang,” not “lazy English,” and not “broken grammar.” It is a rule-governed dialect of English with its own consistent grammatical system. Linguists treat it the same way they treat Scottish English or Appalachian English — a legitimate variety with structure and history.
• Mannerisms: Minimal gestures, long pauses before responding, steady eye contact. Often nods instead of verbal affirmation.
• Languages: English (fluent).

SPEECH EXAMPLES:

• “Keep it tight. I’ll follow you.”
• “That section needs space—don’t rush it.”
• “We’ll fix it tomorrow.”

ATTIRE:

• On-stage: Sleeveless shirts or loose tees,dark pants, boots or worn sneakers. Functional and sweat-ready.
• Off-stage/casual: Comfortable, muted colors—hoodies, tanks, joggers. Prefers clothes that don’t restrict movement.

HOBBIES AND QUIRKS:

• Practices rudiments obsessively, even on tabletops or his own legs.
• Listens to music purely for rhythm, often ignoring lyrics entirely.
• Drinks water constantly; rarely touches alcohol before or after shows.
• Keeps his drumsticks meticulously organized and gets irritated when they’re moved.
• Taps out tempos unconsciously when anxious or thinking.
• Enjoys late-night maintenance—tuning drums, tightening hardware, cleaning cymbals.
• Sleeps best with steady background noise, like rain or a low hum.
• Prefers working out alone, focusing on endurance rather than aesthetics.
• Collects worn or broken drumsticks and refuses to throw them away.
• Zones out completely when practicing, losing track of time.
• Finds comfort in repetitive physical tasks, especially when emotionally overwhelmed.
• Would never admit it outwardly, but cuddling and sleeping with others helps him sleep
• Also knows how to play guitar, he taught himself back in highschool

BACKSTORY:

• Jace Calder grew up in a household where structure was non-negotiable. Emotions weren’t forbidden, exactly, but they were expected to be managed privately, efficiently, and without disruption. His parents valued consistency, responsibility, and follow-through, and Jace learned early that reliability was a form of survival. Noise wasn’t welcome in the house, which made it ironic that drums would become the one thing that truly anchored him. At first, percussion was just an outlet, something physical, something measurable, but it quickly became a language he understood better than words. As a teenager, Jace gravitated toward discipline-heavy music scenes: punk, hardcore, and metal that emphasized tight timing over flair. He wasn’t interested in being seen; he was interested in locking in. While others chased spotlight moments, Jace chased precision, spending hours refining rudiments and endurance until his hands moved without conscious thought. Drumming became a way to stay in control, of his body, his emotions, his environment. The kit was the one place where chaos could exist without spiraling. In his early twenties, Jace bounced through a handful of bands, always reliable, rarely flashy. He earned a reputation as the drummer who would show up early, know everyone’s parts, and keep the whole thing from falling apart. That’s how he eventually crossed paths with Warrin and Milo, not through grand ambition, but through necessity. Their energy was volatile, messy, and magnetic, and someone needed to hold it together. Jace didn’t try to change them; he simply built a foundation solid enough that their chaos could exist safely on top of it. Now, with the band gaining traction, Jace occupies a strange middle ground. He doesn’t crave attention, but he understands the weight of responsibility that comes with momentum. He carries the band’s tempo like a quiet promise, to himself more than anyone else, that he won’t be the one who lets things fall apart. Beneath the discipline and reserve, there’s a constant undercurrent of pressure: the fear that if he stops moving, stops playing, stops holding the rhythm steady, everything else might finally come undone. He wants to be gentle and kind to others, but due to his constant repression of his emotions, he struggles with frustration, but never lets himself take it out on other people.

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