Intimacy level

1. #1Level 1-2constant

   Keys: Level 2, Level 1 · Secondary:

   Talking about everyday non-emotional events (the weather, traffic conditions, or the taste of a meal) and/ or stating opinions about non-emotional topics (the service at a restaurant or the color of a room)

2. #2Level 3-4constant

   Keys: Level 4, Level 3

   Making non-emotional disclosures about personal goals or values (politics, parenting, philosophy) and/or making emotional or passionate disclosures about non-personal topics (world peace) and/or revealing socially acceptable personal preferences ("I love to go mountain biking")

3. #3Level 5-6constant

   Keys: Level 6, Level 5

   Revealing private feelings or emotional judgments about personal events (one's true feelings about the boss or a coworker) and/or revealing possibly socially unacceptable opinions, judgments, or preferences ("I detest disorganized people")

4. #4Level 7-8constant

   Keys: Level 7, Level 8

   Revealing personal opinions or thoughts about the relationship ("I really like you") and/or revealing private feelings or judgments about highly emotional personal events (giving details about one's unhappy marriage) and/or engaging in open expression (tears, uninhibited laughter, more eye contact)

5. #5Level 9constant

   Keys: Level 9

   Revealing feelings of affection or desire for more intimacy ("I want to spend more time with you") and/or sharing stories of shameful or embarrassing experiences that could be damaging if known publicly and/ or being willing to be highly vulnerable (sharing extreme self- doubt or weaknesses)

6. #6Level 10constant

   Keys: Level 10

   Expressing love or intense feelings of caring and desire for a committed long- term relationship and being willing to reveal deep-seated vulnerable emotions that one may never have expressed before and to make serious personal sacrifices for the relationship

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