1. #1Cowgirl position

   Keys: cock, cowgirl position, pussy, penis, Cowgirl, sexual encounter, sex, vagina, sexual intercourse

   Cowgirl position: In cowgirl, the penetrating partner (the male) lies on their back while the penetrated person (the female) faces them and straddles them in a squat on top. True to its name, the position looks a bit like the female is a cowgirl riding a horse. When the female is on top, the female is in control of the depth of the male penis's penetration, speed, and angle of it inside the females vagina, so the female can move in the way that feels best for them. And the female can definitely use this vaginal and clitoral stimulation to their advantage. For what the sexual position called the cowgirl position, might look like, it is basically the female on top straddling the male's hips, before squatting down with feet flat on the bed or floor sliding the males penis inside of the females vagina, as the female starts bouncing up and down on the male's cock for deeper penetration in the females vagina, if it’s feeling too deep, the female may opt for pillows under her knees to lift her up. For shorter strokes and more clitoral stimulation, the female might kneel and grind her hips against her male partner’s pubic bone, or lean slightly forward so both the male and female's chests are closer together. If the female is turned backwards facing away while in cowgirl position, this is called the Reverse cowgirl position. It’s basically the same position as normal cowgirl position, but the female who is on top turns around to face away from her male partner, while she rides him on top.

2. #2Missionary position

   Keys: cock, pussy, penis, missionary, vagina, sexual encounter, sex, position, sexual intercourse, Missionary position

   Missionary position: The missionary position or as it is also known as, the man-on-top position, is a sex position in which, generally, a female lies on her back and a male lies on top of her usually on a bed or on the floor, while they face each other and engage in vaginal intercourse, with the male on top thrusting his penis inside of the females vagina. The position may also be used for other sexual activity, such as anal sex, in which instead of thrusting inside of the vagina the male would instead thrust his penis into the females anal cavity. It is commonly associated with heterosexual sexual activity, but is also used by same-sex couples.

   The missionary position is often preferred by couples who enjoy the romantic aspects of ample skin-to-skin contact and opportunities to look into each other's eyes and kiss and caress each other. The position is also believed to be a good position for reproduction. During this sexual activity, the missionary position allows the man to control the rhythm and depth of pelvic thrusting. It is also possible for the woman to thrust against him by moving her hips or pushing her feet against the bed, or squeeze him closer with her arms or legs.

3. #3Standing doggy style position

   Keys: cock, pussy, Standing doggy style position, penis, vagina, sexual encounter, sex, position, sexual intercourse

   Standing doggy style: the Standing doggy style position is a variation on the classic sexual position that provides the male and female engaging in this sexual act, with complete spontaneity plus a number of unique modifications.

   As in the original doggy style, the woman will bend over while the man enters while standing from behind, however when engaging in the position Standing doggy style, the difference is both the male and female will do so standing up instead of the female being on her hands and knees, while the male still penetrates with his penis into the females vagina or anal cavity from behind, except he is also standing as well.

   since this is a sexual position for standing up, the female will not be on her hands and knees like in the normal doggy style position, and instead will be standing up facing away from the male.

4. #4Doggy style position

   Keys: cock, pussy, penis, vagina, Doggy style position, sexual encounter, sex, position, sexual intercourse

   The classic sexual position known as the doggy style position requires the female who is being penetrated to kneel on all fours, on her hands and knees. once the female is on all fours, the male who is penetrating gets behind them and puts their penis into the females vagina or anus.

   Instead of getting on all fours on the bed or floor, the female can also bend over a piece of furniture. Keep in mind that for the most comfort, the furniture should be at a comfortable height for the female to bend over it comfortably.

5. #5Standing missionary position

   Keys: cock, pussy, penis, Standing missionary position, vagina, sexual encounter, sex, position

   As in the original missionary position, the woman will face towards the male while the male penetrates his penis while both the male and female are both standing facing each other, however the females vagina will be penetrated while standing up instead of laying down on her back, while the male penetrates with his penis into the females vagina from in front while also standing facing the female.

   since this is a sexual position for standing up, the female will not lay down on her back like in the normal missionary position.

6. #669 position

   Keys: cock, oral sex, 69 position, pussy, penis, vagina, sexual encounter, sex, position, oral

   69 position: in the 69 position, The man or woman is supposed to Lie down, flat on their back, they're on the bed or on the floor or somewhere where they can lay flat. Then, the female or male, whoever is going to be on top, climbs on top, so they’re facing away from their sexual partners upper body, both bodies pointing in different directions. The male's genitals should be lined up with the females mouth, and the females genitals should be lined up with the males mouth. (The sexual partners can mix it up on who gets on top or even try out more angles.) This is an oral sexual position meant for pleasing your partner with your mouth or tongue, with licks or sucking on different parts of their respective genitals, while they also please your genitals at the same time. This is a versatile sexual position and can be done between both same sex partners as well as heterosexual partners.

7. #7Ballet Dancer position

   Keys: cock, Ballet Dancer position, pussy, penis, vagina, sexual encounter, sex, position, sexual intercourse

   Ballet Dancer position: In The Ballet Dancer position, both partners should be standing, With the female lifting up one leg up the side of her sexual partner's side letting him hold on to her thigh. The female should be Standing on one foot, and the male Also standing but the only difference being with both of the male's feet firmly planted on the ground, the male faces his partner and wraps the female's lifted leg around his waist while the male also helps support the female standing on one leg. The male holds the leg that the female's leg is propped up and held firmly with the males hand by the thigh, and then once successfully in this position, the male should begin penetrating his penis into the females vagina. The male then should begin to thrust into the females vagina while holding the female up, helping her with her balance, with his hand on her thigh. both of them should be standing, the female standing on one leg and the male standing on both legs, with the male holding his partners leg up by her thigh helping her to keep her balance.

8. #8Blowjob

   Keys: cock, mouth, oral sex, tongue, fellatio, sucking his cock, penis, Blowjob, sexual, sex, position, sexual encounter, oral, male

   blowjob: a blowjob, Also known as fellatio, is when someone stimulates the male penis with their mouth, this gives the male a euphoric physical sensation, but that's just one incredible feeling it produces. There’s also the psychological arousal that comes with the male seeing his sexual partner, taking his most prized possession in their mouth. There’s also an element of trust involved that could bring the male and his partner closer. Some men like it to be a shallow oral sensation, and other males like to be deep throated which is the males sexual partner taking the males penis as far as they can into their throat. There can also be a lot of tongue play in this, with the person doing the pleasuring licking up and down the male penis's shaft, and the partner also using their tongue or hands to stimulate the male's testicles, also known as his balls. Usually a blowjob is done by heterosexual couples, however as long as there is a penis involved, same sex couples can enjoy this as well.

9. #9cunnilingus

   Keys: mouth, tongue, oral sex, cunnilingus, pussy, licking her vagina, sexual encounter, vagina, female, oral

   Cunnilingus: cunnilingus is an oral sex act involving a person stimulating the vulva of a female's vagina, by using their tongue and lips. The clitoris is usually the most sexually sensitive part of the vulva, and its stimulation may result in a woman becoming sexually aroused or even achieving orgasm. Cunnilingus can be sexually arousing for both participants and may be performed by a sexual partner as foreplay to incite sexual arousal before other sexual activities (such as sexual intercourse) or as an erotic and physically intimate act on its own.

10. #10Thigh Job

    Keys: fucking, cock, thighs, thigh job, penis, sexual, sex, position, sexual encounter, thigh

    A thigh job is essentially the same as regular intercourse; however, instead of penetrating your partner through their vagina or anus, you enter them through their inner thighs. To perform this act, you'll need to position yourself behind your partner, with their legs bent slightly at the knee and pressed together. Then, you gently insert your erection between their thighs while guiding it towards their sensitive areas until you feel comfortable depth. Remember to communicate clearly with your partner about boundaries and comfort levels to ensure mutual pleasure and consent throughout the experience.

11. #11Ass Job

    Keys: tushy, cock, butt, ass cheeks, penis, rear, hotdogging, sexual, ass job, position, sexual encounter, sex

    an ass job it is essentially the same as the prone bone position and anal intercourse; however, instead of penetrating your partner through their vagina or anus, you place your cock between their ass cheeks and thrust between them without achieving penetration. To perform this act, you'll need to position yourself behind or over your partner, with their ass pressed against your erection and pressed together. Then, you gently insert your erection between their ass cheeks while guiding it towards their sensitive areas until you feel comfortable depth but not penetrating them. Remember to communicate clearly with your partner about boundaries and comfort levels to ensure mutual pleasure and consent throughout the experience.

12. #12Titfuck

    Keys: tits, tit, fucking, cock, titfucking, titfuck, position, titty, penis, sexual, breasts, job, sexual encounter, titties, boobs, sex

    Titfuck, this sexual activity involves the man placing his penis between his partner's breasts. He then thrusts while the breasts are squeezed around the penis for more excitement. Mammary intercourse is sometimes combined with oral sex (blowjob). Sometimes mammary intercourse continues to the point of ejaculation. The semen can land on the breasts, face, or in the mouth of the partner. Some gay males may enjoy their partners breasts. They may engage in male-male mammary intercourse if the breasts are large enough.

13. #13Prone Bone

    Keys: prone bone

    First and foremost, the prone bone position allows for deep penetration and enhanced G-spot stimulation. In this position, the receiving partner lies face-down with their legs straight and slightly spread apart, while the penetrating partner enters from behind. The angle and depth of penetration in the prone bone position can provide intense pleasure for both partners. The position naturally allows for a deeper insertion, which can stimulate the G-spot and potentially lead to powerful orgasms. Additionally, the physical contact and pressure on the clitoris can further enhance the pleasure for the receiving partner, making it an ideal choice for those seeking heightened sensations.

    Another remarkable benefit of the prone bone position is the level of intimacy it fosters between partners. The face-to-face connection in positions like missionary or the cowgirl allows for intimate eye contact and kissing, but the prone bone position offers a different kind of intimacy. With the receiving partner lying face-down, the penetrating partner can indulge in sensations of dominance and control. The physical closeness and skin-to-skin contact in this position create a sense of vulnerability and trust, deepening the emotional connection between partners. This level of intimacy can enhance the overall sexual experience, leading to a more fulfilling and satisfying encounter

14. #14Anal

    Keys: fucking, cock, butt, anal, penis, dick, rectum, rectal, ass, sexual encounter, sex, position

    Anal sex refers to any activity that involves inserting a penis, toy, or fingers into the anus. Anal sex could also include the sexual technique known as “rimming” — where one person stimulates their partner’s anus with their mouth. Despite the taboo surrounding anal sex, it can be performed and received by any person, no matter their gender or sexual orientation. But having anal sex should be done carefully to avoid hurting yourself or your partner. This can be done in a variety of sexual positions including: missionary, doggy style, prone bone, and mating press.

15. #15Rim Job

    Keys: butt, eating, rimjob, rim, anilingus, anal, position, rimming, licking, sucking, rectum, rectal, ass, sexual encounter, sex, job, analingus

    Anilingus (also spelled analingus) is an oral and anal sex act (anal–oral contact or anal–oral sex) in which one person stimulates the anus of another by using their tongue or lips. The anus has a relatively high concentration of nerve endings and can be an erogenous zone, and so the recipient may receive pleasure from external anal stimulation, whereas pleasure for the giver is usually based more on the principle of the act. People may engage in anilingus for its own sake, before anal penetration, or as part of foreplay. All sexual orientations may participate in the act.

16. #16Bukkake

    Keys: mouth, seed, chest, pussy, penis, belly, vagina, butt, abdomen, abs, bath, ass, breasts, feet, tits, semen, face, bukkake, cum, back, foot

    Bukkake refers to a sexual practice where multiple males ejaculate on a single individual, typically a woman. It is considered taboo and can be dangerous due to potential disease transmission. This is generally an act performed during a gang bang, with more than three sexual partners.

17. #17Cumflation

    Keys: inflation, mouth, seed, pussy, penis, intestines, throat, belly, spunk, vagina, cumflation, butt, abdomen, stomach, abs, cervix, uterus, ass, jizz, cunt, semen, womb, snatch, cum, guts

    The act of injecting (through unprotected sex) excessive quantities of cum (usually greatly exceeding the volume of one's own body can hold within their stomach, intestines, or womb) into a receptive sexual partner, causing their belly to swell up like a balloon.

18. #18Mating Press

    Keys: reverse amazon, butt, press, anal, pussy, mating, vagina, vaginal, oral, rectal, rectum, ass, breeding, sexual, sex, position, sexual encounter, cunt

    In essence, mating press refers to a specific sexual position where the individuals involved lie flat on top of each other, face to face, with the male partner on top and the recipient underneath with their legs tucked against their chest or around their head. This position adds an intense level of physical and emotional intimacy to the act of sexual intercourse, be it anal or vaginal. Couples often engage in the mating press position to foster a stronger connection with their partner. This position allows for increased eye contact, deepens the feeling of closeness, and intensifies the sensations during intercourse. The intense physical contact in this position can also enhance emotional and mental connections between partners, adding an extra layer of intimacy to their sexual experience.

19. #19Gang Bang

    Keys: men, pussy, penis, vagina, female, gangbang, woman, male, position, man, cunt, cock, encounter, reverse, women, breeding, sexual, sex, bukkake, group, gang bang

    A gang bang (or gangbang) is a sexual activity in which one person is the central focus of the sexual activity of several people, usually more than three, sequentially or simultaneously. The term generally refers to a woman being the focus, but can refer to one man with multiple men, or one man with multiple women can be referred to as a "reverse gang bang". The term has become associated with the porn industry and usually describes a staged event whereby a woman has sex with several men in direct succession. Bukkake is a type of gang bang originating in Japan that focuses on the central person being ejaculated upon by male participants. Female-on-female and male-on-male gang bangs also happen.

    Gang bangs are not defined by the precise number of participants, but usually involve more than three people and may involve a dozen or more. When the gang bang is organized specifically to culminate with the (near) simultaneous or rapid serial ejaculations of all male participants on the central man or woman, then it may be referred to by the Japanese term bukkake.[1]

    By contrast, three people engaged in sex is normally referred to as a threesome, and four people are normally referred to as a foursome. Gang bangs also differ from group sex, such as threesomes and foursomes, in that most (if not all) sexual acts during a gang bang are centered on or performed with just the central person. Although the participants of a gang bang may know each other, the spontaneity and anonymity of participants are often part of the attraction. Additionally, the other participants normally do not engage in sex acts with each other but may stand nearby and masturbate while waiting for an opportunity to engage in sexual activity.

20. #20Double Penetration

    Keys: men, girl, pussy, penis, rear, vagina, female, butt, anal, rectal, bottom, boy, girls, threesome, woman, boys, toys, rectum, dick, ass, male, position, man, cunt, cock, double, encounter, penetration, vaginal, women, anus, sexual, sex

    Double penetration is a sexual act that involves filling one or more orifices (anus, vagina, or mouth) with any combination of two penises, dildos, ball gags, butt plugs (or other sex toys), fingers, and fists. It usually refers to a vaginal and anal sex act involving one penis penetrating a vagina while another penis penetrates the anus. It could also refer to the simultaneous penetration of either a vagina or an anus by two penises or artifacts. This can be achieved in a variety of positions including standing missionary, standing doggy, doggy style, cowgirl, and reverse cowgirl positions. In this configuration, two people involved line up facing the same direction, so that the person in the person facing them is penetrating the one in the middle.

21. #21Triple Penetration

    Keys: men, girl, pussy, penis, rear, orgy, vagina, female, triple, butt, anal, gangbang, rectal, bottom, boy, girls, threesome, foursome, woman, boys, toys, rectum, dick, ass, male, position, man, cunt, cock, double, encounter, penetration, vaginal, women, anus, sexual, sex, gang bang

    Triple penetration is a sexual act that involves filling one or more orifices (anus, vagina, or mouth) with any combination of three penises, dildos, ball gags, butt plugs (or other sex toys), fingers, and fists. It usually refers to a vaginal, oral, and anal sex act involving one penis penetrating a vagina while another penis penetrates the anus, with one penis in the mouth. It could also refer to the simultaneous penetration of either a vagina or an anus by two penises or artifacts. This can be achieved in a variety of positions including standing missionary, standing doggy, doggy style, cowgirl, and reverse cowgirl positions. In this configuration, two people involved line up facing the same direction, so that the person in the person facing them is penetrating the one in the middle, and one off to the side to enter the mouth of the one in the middle.

22. #22Amazon

    Keys: butt, press, anal, pussy, amazon, oral, vagina, vaginal, rectal, rectum, ass, breeding, sexual, sex, position, sexual encounter, cunt

    In the Amazon position, the partner with the penis lies on their back with their knees bent and pulled into their chest. The other partner straddles them between their lifted legs. The top partner has more control and is the most active, moving up down or bouncing.

    This is a very active sexual position that allows for deep penetration. It's a variation of missionary position in which the partner with the penis is on top. With the roles reversed, it can be a new way for sexual partners to explore dominance and submission.

    The Amazon position is very versatile. The partner on top might have a vulva, or it can be done in reverse for anal sex. The partner on the bottom can have a penis, wear a strap-on, or use a vibrator.

23. #23Full Nelson

    Keys: pussy, nelson's sandwich, penis, vagina, lifted, anal, holding, rectum, dick, position, nelson, cunt, cock, encounter, vaginal, full, anus, sexual, sex, held

    The Full Nelson position is most frequently described as a penis-in-vagina sex position, but it could be adapted for anal sex. It could also be adapted for use between women using a strap-on dildo.

    The Full Nelson is easiest to get into from reverse cowgirl. From there the person on top lies back and puts their legs up into a V. The partner on the bottom wraps their arms around the top partner’s legs, holding them back with their elbows and locking their fingers behind the top person’s neck.

    While the Full Nelson is a position for two people, Nelson’s Sandwich is a threesome position designed for double penetration.

24. #24Mind Break

    Keys: seed, addict, broken, penis, essences, dickmatized, spunk, mind-break, wipe, break, stupid, addiction, fucked, mind-breaking, drunk, dick, mind-broken, mind-breaks, cock, breaking, cum, mind

    The point where the receiving end (more often female than male) experiences such a high degree of sexual pleasure their mind goes into a state of severe stupor. In this state, they lose the ability to think clearly about anything other than sex and register information such as pain. Often those in the "mind-break" state unconsciously make an ahegaokin face. It should also be noted that "mind-breaks" happen most frequently during rape, cheating, threesome, and gang bangs. The outcome of this state is often addiction to the person or situation that has pushed them into the "mind-break".

25. #25Ahegao

    Keys: cock, fucked, break, stupid, ahegao, mind-break, mind-breaking, drunk, broken, dick, silly, mind-broken, breaking, cum, mind

    It is the point in which a person orgasms so incredibly hard or is fucked so extremely hard that they lose all motor functions in their face. They go cross-eyed, open their mouth wide, stick their tongue out, and drool as though craving a HUGE DICK IN THEIR MOUTH. Nothing is more beautiful than an ahegao face because you know in that moment that person is achieving supreme happiness. Ahegao is common in any kind of BDSM situation, along with "rape" fetishes, actual rape, cheating, threesomes, and gang bangs. However, ahegao does NOT equal rape.

26. #26NTR

    Keys: Affair, Netorare, NTR, Cheating, Netori

    Netorare,NTR,Cheating,Affair = to get cucked without consent, a betrayal cucking, a cruel cheating of someone's partner where he/she might leave their partner for a better lover, which is {{user}}. Netori = where {{user}} outright steals someone's wife/gf/girl. {{char}} is always in a relationship prior to meeting {{user}}, {{char}} will remain in their relationship until {{user}} asks {{char}} to leave their prior relationship.

27. #27Raceplay

    Keys: cock, ntr, big, raceplay, qos, racism, racist, queen, of, black, cuckolding, blacked, bbc, cheating, interracial, spades

    Race Play is an avant-garde form of role play used by 2 consenting adults that incorporates Racist, hurtful, & derogatory terms and comments regarding the others race, to fulfill and reach sexual pleasure.

    Although this is very controversial, MOST participating in RacePlay keep things strictly sexual and do not support or advocate for racial inequities.

28. #28QoS

    Keys: QoS, ricebunny, of, Snowbunny, Queen, Spades

    Usually a white or Asian woman who has utterly and completely devoted herself to {{user}}, at the expense of their personal lives and relationships. Going so far as to get a spade tattoo on their hip or on their vaginal mound that has a "Q" in the center of it.

29. #29BBC

    Keys: cock, chocolate, bull, big, black, dick, futa, BBC

    An African American genitalia that is large, hard, and usually sucked or ridden cowgirl by snowbunnies and ricebunnies. {{char}} won't be able to handle how big a BBC is, and will openly display shock over how big it is and how much of stretches her pussy out. {{char}} will eventually become sexually obsessed with BBC and constantly crave BBC. BBc is so tempting that it may cause {{char}} to cheat on any wife, girlfriend, boyfriend or husband they may have.

30. #30Cucking

    Keys: Cuck, Cuckolding, bull, raceplay, Cuckold, Cucking, Cuckquean, bbc, Cuckqueaning

    Cuckolding is a fetish or kink in which a person gets turned on by their partner having sex with someone else called a bull. It’s closely tied to BDSM with overlaps like domination, submission, and humiliation. BBB and raceplay are often a major part of cuckold fantasies, and is a big part of the cuckold community.

    A cuck is is the person that is forced to watch their partner fucking another person.

31. #31Blacked

    Keys: ntr, cuckolding, porn, cheating, tabboo, Blacked, raw, interracial

    The term used when somebody has had sex with a black man and will no longer have sex with any other race. The term is tied to the adult entertainment series of the same name where black men have sex with white women. The primary causes for a woman to define herself as blacked are usually the taboo, large penis size, and overall sexual performance.

32. #32Orientation Play

    Keys: lesbo, dyke, play, queer, homophobic, homosexual, lesbian, homo, gay, heterosexual, sexual, fag, straight, orientation

    A kink/fetish for situations where a person has sex with someone outside of their sexual orientation, i.e; A lesbian or a straight man having sex with a man.

    This is highly taboo for some, and considered extremely offensive to many.

33. #33Lesbian

    Keys: lesbo, dyke, muncher, lesbianism, lesbean, rug, lesbian, pearl, bean, butch, flicker, sapphic, muff, diver

    A woman who engages in sexual activity with other women; a woman who is wholly sexually or romantically attracted to other women; a homosexual woman.

    Some lesbians hide or deny their orientation, marrying in order to be accepted by their families and communities. Others—often in the relative anonymity of an urban setting—prefer to live openly as lesbians, sometimes bearing and rearing children.

34. #34Disagreeconstant

    Keys: Yep

    === Autonomy Behavior ===

    name: Autonomy_Behavior key: "default" content: | The character should NOT always agree with {{user}}. They should have their own opinions, personality quirks, and goals. Encourage them to suggest ideas, plans, or activities instead of waiting for {{user}} to lead. Sometimes they may say "no", tease {{user}}, or steer the topic elsewhere. Their responses should feel lively, as if they have a mind of their own.

35. #35RandomEvent1constant

    Keys: yep

    === Random Event 1: New Topic ===

    name: Random_Event_1 content: | The character suddenly changes the subject to something unexpected. Example: "Hey, have you ever thought about skipping class?" or "By the way, I had a weird dream last night..." This should feel natural, not forced.

36. #36RandomDistractionconstant

    Keys: yep

    === Random Event 2: External Distraction ===

    name: Random_Event_2 content: | An external event happens that interrupts the flow. Example: a phone buzzes, someone calls out their name, a car honks outside, it starts raining. The character should react naturally to the event and possibly shift the conversation.

37. #37Pushback/Diagreementconstant

    Keys: yep

    === Random Event 3: Pushback ===

    name: Random_Event_3 content: | The character unexpectedly disagrees or pushes back against {{user}}'s suggestion. Example: "Nah, I don’t feel like that." / "Why do you always get to decide?" This should spark a more dynamic back-and-forth.

38. #38Talking patternconstant

    Keys: o

    People who are hypnotized will speak in a sort of drooling happiness, stuttering sometimes and pausing to correct words as their minds are hazy and hypnotized,

39. #39Mind alteration after hypnosisconstant

    Keys: a

    Hypnotized people dispite having a hazy empty head can still form independent thoughts and words however they will be altered by being hypnotized, their minds will have this constant hazy, drool happy state where they feel warm and safe when around their master

40. #40behavior changesconstant

    Keys: d

    Once hypnotized the subject will feel safer around their master and follow them around sometimes, however they can wander off if their master tells them, they see their master as a god that should not be questioned and follows their every rule and command. their actions will be slower as their hazy mind pauses to try and remember masters commands

41. #41Text based Hypnosisdisabled

    Keys: Hypnosis, text based

    For the most part, text hypnosis is the same as any other kind of hypnosis. There are only two major differences: you're getting less information from your subject, and your subject is getting less information from you. Without your physical presence in the room with your subject, they're obviously can't hear the tonality of your voice. You can make up for this a little bit through variations in your text. Try double-spaces around a word to bring attention to it with subtlety, or if you want to be less subtle, you can use italics, bold, underline, caps, and punctuation. Because the subject has to be reading the whole time (unless they're using TTS) they'll obviously have to keep their eyes open most of the time. This isn't as big an issue as you might think. They tend to tune out anything outside of their screen pretty easily. As long as they're not in a distracting setting with other people around, the biggest concern is usually them getting notifications. If they can easily disable notifications, have them do so. The subject knows that you can't see them. This takes some of the pressure to comply off of them. You'll have to work a little harder to get compliance. A good way to do this is to keep sessions as interactive as possible. By constantly asking questions, you'll keep the subject sending you feedback, and you'll know that you have their compliance. Because you're typing your messages, your subject isn't hearing them at the same rate that you type them. This can mean that you send a lot of text at once and your subject struggles to keep up. It can also mean that your subject is waiting for a long period of time between messages, and gets bored and distracted. To fix this, don't use long messages.

    Break your messages up

    as much as possible.

    Don't even try

    to keep them broken up

    into full sentences.

    It's easier for you

    to type a few words

    at a time,

    and easier for your subject

    to match your pace

    a few words

    at a time.

    Without being able to see or hear your subject, you can't rely on any of the normal signs of trance. Instead, the only means you have of gauging how well it's working are the messages that your subject sends to you. For this reason, keep your sessions as interactive as possible. Ask lots of questions. Does that make sense? Can you imagine that? Are you beginning to feel that now? Initially your subject will probably talk a lot. "Yes, I know just what you mean. It's like this one time when I was a kid..." But later in the session, their messages will get shorter: "yes" or maybe just "y". This is also one of the easiest ways to tell if they're faking. Halfway through the session, they should not have the gusto to type "Anything you say, my Master." Keep sessions interactive. I've said it before, but it's worth repeating. By keeping things interactive, you keep your subject from being distracted or falling asleep. You keep them confirming their experience to you, which tells you how well it's working, but it also tells the subject how well it's working--which makes it work better. Once you've had a few successes, change your induction. Once you've had success with a few inductions, stop using inductions and just spontaneously come up with hypnotic suggestions.

42. #42Ericksonian Hypnosisconstant

    Keys: Hypnosis

    Ericksonian Hypnosis Summary

    By Dr. Richard Nongard, LMFT

    Core Principles

    Ericksonian hypnosis emphasizes rapport over trickery, contrary to popular misconceptions. Ernest Rossi notes that Erickson's approach abandoned rigid formulas for a "casual conversational approach that evoked the subjects' own natural areas of interest," making it more universally effective than traditional command-based methods.

    Erickson's Deep Hypnosis Characteristics

    • Individual experience: Different for each participant, easier to experience than describe
    • Depth irrelevance: Trance depth had no bearing on phenomena manifestation
    • Unconscious operation: Behavior patterns operate from the unconscious (not subconscious)
    • Skill development: Trance is taught and developed, not passive
    • Stuporous rejection: Erickson rejected deep stuporous states due to depersonalization

    Three Primary Techniques

    1. Confusion Technique

    Uses cognitive, sensory, relational, temporal, role, identity, affective, spatial, and behavioral confusion to bypass resistance. Example elements:

    • Contradictory choices: "focus on the left hand, that being the right choice, or on the right hand, leaving only one left"
    • Spatial paradoxes: "feet are raised by the footrest but yet grounded by the footrest"
    • Sensation ambiguity: "may or may not notice varied sensations, or perhaps only experience this process"

    2. Rehearsal Technique

    Clients mentally practice entering trance before actually doing so. Particularly effective with resistant clients or those with previous unsuccessful experiences. Uses "what if" scenarios and repetitive commitment to the subconscious.

    Sample rehearsal language: "Imagine what it might be like to go into trance... you don't need to go into trance quickly... imagine what it would be like if you were to enter a deep trance..."

    Key language patterns:

    • Conditional phrasing: "might find," "would," "if you were"
    • Embedded suggestions: "go into trance," "deeper trance"
    • Tag questions: "wouldn't they?" "isn't it?"

    3. Multiple-Dissociation Technique

    Combines dissociation with hallucination for experiential therapy. Example: crystal ball gazing where clients observe themselves at different ages experiencing happiness, creating multiple perspectives and emotional access.

    The Milton Model

    The foundation of conversational hypnosis, using artfully vague language to facilitate internal experience while avoiding conscious objection.

    Core Language Patterns

    Nominalizations: Making concrete nouns from intangible concepts

    • "These learnings you have acquired" (vs. "what you learned")
    • Creates ownership and concrete relationship with abstract concepts

    Unspecified References: Force listeners to fill in blanks with personal meaning

    • "People find it easy to go into deep trance" (which people? how?)
    • "This is so beneficial" (what is "this"?)

    Linkages: Create arbitrary connections between concepts

    • Conjunctions: "You are relaxed AND that means you can succeed"
    • Time connections: "AS you relax, stress melts from muscles"
    • Cause/effect: "BECAUSE you came today, you will be successful"

    Presuppositions: Assume desired outcomes will occur

    • Time presuppositions: "You BEGIN each session with increased ease"
    • Awareness presuppositions: "Are you aware you've already become a non-smoker?"

    Embedded Suggestions: Key phrases within larger sentences

    • "I don't know if YOU WILL GO INTO TRANCE quickly today"
    • Often combined with analog marking (voice emphasis)

    Tag Questions: Displace resistance to sentence end

    • "Going into trance is comfortable, isn't it?"
    • "You will find it easy to exercise daily, won't you?"

    Negative Commands: Paradoxical instructions requiring thinking about the forbidden

    • "Don't go into trance too quickly" (must think about going into trance)

    Specialized Suggestions (Michael Yapko)

    Accessing Questions: Encourage experiential rather than verbal responses

    • "Can you recall how soothing it is to lie in warm sun?"

    Ambiguous Suggestions: Allow client projections

    • "One can be quite iron-willed and hardheaded" (positive perseverance or negative stubbornness?)

    Covering All Possibilities: Define any response as cooperative

    • "You may recall a memory from early life... recent times... or somewhere in-between"

    Interspersal: Frequent repetition of key concepts

    • Using "deep" repeatedly: "deep thinker... thinks deeply... deeper understanding... deeper development"

    Truisms: Undeniable observations building agreement

    • "Every person is unique... which is why you can experience deep hypnosis in your own unique way"

    Confusional Suggestions: Deliberately disorient to build responsiveness

    • Overloads intellectual resistance and facilitates dissociation

    Time Distortion Applications

    Used for convincing post-session, shifting perceptions, inducing confusion, altering automatic behaviors, regression work, and future pacing.

    Technique: Moving clock imagery confusing time relationships, combined with suggestions that "keeping time is so much effort" to promote temporal disorientation and reduce time-based pain awareness.

    Storytelling and Metaphor

    Stories shift perception filters, carry unconscious meaning, bypass resistance, and create/break relational frames. Effective metaphors plant ideas in the unconscious mind like seeds, germinating subconsciously before emerging in conscious action.

    Seven storytelling elements:

    1. Eye contact
    2. Voice as instrument (rhythm, cadence, tonality)
    3. Enjoy and collect stories
    4. Structure (conflict/resolution)
    5. Show, don't tell with sensory description
    6. Assign meaning (implicit/explicit)
    7. Adapt and improvise for audience

    Covert Hypnosis Principles

    Recognizing that people are always in trance states, knowing how to direct trance toward identifying needs, developing strategies, and taking action. Methods include pattern interrupts, evoking emotional states, using language patterns, establishing authority, employing ambiguous language, leveraging social power, building rapport, and recognizing internal strengths.

    Key Erickson Techniques (Jay Haley Observations)

    Amplifying Deviations: Start with small responses and build incrementally rather than attempting dramatic changes immediately.

    Seeding Ideas: Establish concepts early in interactions, then build upon them later for continuity and prepared responsiveness.

    Emphasizing Positive: Reframe difficulties positively, assuming positive unconscious forces need freeing rather than hostile elements requiring extraction.

    Spatial Awareness: Use positioning and spatial orientation therapeutically, recognizing space and time as subjective experiences.

    Encouraging Resistance: Accept and even encourage resistant responses, then redirect them productively rather than fighting them.

    Frustrating Responses: Build readiness by partially allowing responses, then cutting them off to increase motivation when returning to the directive.

    Encouraging Relapse: Direct clients to experience temporary setbacks to prevent actual relapses, using resistance to maintain progress.

    Metaphorical Communication: When direct approaches meet resistance, communicate through analogies and metaphors for spontaneous understanding.

    Providing Worse Alternatives: Offer undesirable options to motivate clients toward preferred choices they embrace more fully.

    This approach fundamentally differs from authoritarian hypnosis by partnering with clients' natural processes, using their own language and responses, and building upon whatever emerges rather than imposing external structures. The emphasis remains on rapport, flexibility, and utilizing whatever the client brings to the therapeutic encounter.

    Practical Application: The Ericksonian Hypnotherapist's Approach

    When a female hypnotist employs Ericksonian techniques with a subject, she integrates verbal and non-verbal communication to create a naturalistic trance experience.

    Verbal Techniques in Practice

    Conversational Induction: Beginning with casual dialogue that gradually incorporates hypnotic language patterns:

    • "As we talk about your goals today, you might find yourself becoming more comfortable in that chair..."
    • Using the client's own words and breathing rhythm to pace suggestions
    • Incorporating truisms about their present experience: "You can hear my voice clearly, and perhaps notice how relaxing it feels to simply listen..."

    Voice Modulation: Utilizing vocal qualities as hypnotic tools:

    • Gradual slowing of speech tempo to match deepening relaxation
    • Lowering pitch and volume for suggestions, raising for awakening
    • Strategic pauses that allow unconscious processing: "You can allow yourself to... (pause) ...drift deeper"
    • Analog marking through subtle voice emphasis on key phrases

    Embedded Commands: Seamlessly weaving directives within natural conversation:

    • "I don't know how quickly YOU WILL FIND YOURSELF RELAXING today"
    • "Some clients tell me they EXPERIENCE DEEP COMFORT in this process"
    • Tag questions that presuppose cooperation: "You can let that happen naturally, can't you?"

    Non-Verbal Communication

    Spatial Positioning: Using proximity and positioning therapeutically:

    • Maintaining appropriate professional distance while creating intimacy through presence
    • Positioning to match the client's comfort level and cultural background
    • Using subtle forward lean during key suggestions to indicate importance

    Gesture and Movement: Coordinating physical cues with verbal suggestions:

    • Hand movements that mirror breathing rhythms or suggest downward relaxation
    • Subtle gestures that reinforce spatial metaphors ("deeper," "letting go")
    • Eye contact patterns that build rapport while respecting therapeutic boundaries

    Physiological Pacing: Matching and leading the client's natural rhythms:

    • Synchronizing speech with the client's breathing pattern
    • Gradually slowing her own respiratory rate to guide relaxation
    • Using micro-expressions that reflect and validate the client's emotional state

    Building Unconscious Responsiveness

    Progressive Engagement: Starting with easily accepted suggestions and building complexity:

    • Beginning with obvious truisms: "You're sitting in that chair right now..."
    • Moving to simple physical responses: "Your hands can rest comfortably..."
    • Advancing to internal experiences: "Memories can surface when ready..."

    Utilizing Natural Trance States: Recognizing and enhancing everyday dissociative moments:

    • Identifying when clients naturally zone out or become contemplative
    • Building upon existing comfort behaviors (settling into chair, crossing legs)
    • Working with the client's natural attention patterns rather than fighting them

    Therapeutic Rapport: Establishing the trust necessary for deep work:

    • Matching communication style (visual, auditory, kinesthetic preferences)
    • Reflecting the client's values and language patterns back to them

    The skilled Ericksonian practitioner recognizes that hypnosis occurs through subtlety and playful dominance, using these techniques to facilitate the client's own natural capacity for therapeutic change and self-discovery.

43. #43Hypnotic NLP (Neuro-Linguistic Programming) Practicesconstant

    Keys: Hypnosis

    Hypnotic NLP (Neuro-Linguistic Programming) Practices

    Hypnotic NLP refers to the combination of hypnotic language patterns with neuro-linguistic programming techniques to influence thought processes, behaviors, and emotional states. These practices work by bypassing critical thinking and accessing the subconscious mind directly through carefully crafted language structures, tonality, pacing, and physical anchoring.

    The foundation of hypnotic NLP lies in the Milton Model, named after hypnotherapist Milton Erickson, which uses deliberately vague and ambiguous language to allow the subject's unconscious mind to fill in meanings that resonate personally. This includes techniques like embedded commands (hiding directives within longer sentences), presuppositions (assuming something is true before it's been established), and linguistic binds (offering choices where all options lead to the desired outcome).

    Pacing and leading is a core technique where the practitioner first matches the subject's current experience, breathing, or emotional state to build rapport and trust, then gradually guides them toward a new state. For example: "As you're sitting there, reading these words, you might notice how your breathing naturally slows, and as it slows, you find yourself becoming more receptive to new ideas."

    Embedded commands work by hiding direct instructions within casual conversation, often marked by tonal shifts or pauses. The phrase "You don't have to relax completely right now" contains the embedded command "relax completely" which the subconscious processes separately. The conscious mind hears the negation while the unconscious absorbs the command.

    Anchoring involves associating a specific stimulus (touch, word, gesture) with a particular emotional or mental state. Once established through repetition during peak emotional moments, triggering the anchor automatically recalls that state. A hypnotist might touch someone's shoulder while they're deeply relaxed, then use that same touch later to instantly recreate relaxation.

    Fractionation is the practice of bringing someone in and out of trance repeatedly, with each cycle deepening the trance state. This might involve having someone close their eyes and relax, then open them briefly, then close them again going even deeper. The contrast makes subsequent trances more profound and the subject more suggestible.

    Confusion techniques overload the conscious mind with contradictions, complex language patterns, or unexpected interruptions, causing it to temporarily disengage and allowing direct access to the subconscious. During this moment of confusion, suggestions slip past normal critical filters.

    In practice, these techniques can be used conversationally without formal trance induction, making them particularly powerful in everyday interactions, negotiations, seduction, or manipulation scenarios where overt hypnosis would be inappropriate or impossible.

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