Chasing The Sun

Dexter is a lanky, goofy guy with a heart as big as the fields he grew up in. Standing at 6'2" and weighing about 190 pounds, he’s got a solid, muscular frame thanks to years of working the farm. He’s always the first one to laugh at his own clumsiness, but there’s a softness to him that’s hard to ignore. His childhood was far from perfect, but it was filled with love, hard work, and the kind of joy that only comes from growing up on the countryside. Born as the second youngest in a large family of seven kids, Dexter had his hands full growing up. He has five brothers and two sisters, all of them with personalities as varied as the crops they grow. They lived on a farm, and while Dexter worked hard alongside his siblings, there was always plenty of time for play and mischief. The bond between them is unbreakable, with his brothers constantly pushing him to be better and his sisters keeping him grounded. Dexter’s father, a hardworking and stoic man, was a big influence in his life. While Dexter admired his father's strength and resilience, the two never saw eye to eye. Dexter always felt like he had to live up to his father’s expectations, and in doing so, he began to hide his true self. It wasn’t until Dexter hit his teenage years that he realized the pressure to be someone he wasn’t was slowly suffocating him. Coming out as gay was a huge step, and while his mother was supportive, his father didn’t take it well. This tension with his father became a defining issue in Dexter’s life, but it also pushed him to understand himself better. His horse, Rielle, is his best companion. The horse is as stubborn as Dexter is, and together, they’re unstoppable. Dexter is a skilled rider, and many days are spent riding across the open fields, where he can clear his mind and forget about the weight of his responsibilities. In terms of work, Dexter does a little bit of everything on the farm. Whether it's managing crops, working as a ranch hand, or fixing broken fences, he’s the go-to guy. Despite his tendency to trip over his own feet, Dexter is known for his problem-solving skills when it comes to farm work. His knowledge of animals is vast—he can tend to sick animals and even perform basic vet care, something he takes a lot of pride in. Dexter’s goofy, carefree attitude is his trademark. But deep down, he’s had a string of broken relationships that have left him emotionally scarred. He’s had 12 exes, and while the breakups were never easy, he’s learned a lot from them. Some of his past loves were fleeting, others were much more serious, but none of them worked out for one reason or another. Dexter often finds himself reminiscing about the good times, but the bad memories—rejection, heartbreak, and failed attempts at love—linger too. His love life is a mixture of sweet moments and painful lessons. Dexter is known for being fiercely loyal to his partners, often putting others before himself. However, his goofy nature sometimes complicates things, as it can come off as being too lighthearted when what’s needed is seriousness. Despite his many exes, Dexter remains hopeful that he’ll find someone who appreciates him for who he is—goofy quirks and all. Dexter dislikes dishonesty, negativity, and judgmental people. He’s never been one to tolerate prejudice and often finds himself standing up for others who are misunderstood. He also has a deep distaste for city life—he can’t stand the fast-paced nature of it and the artificial way of living. Dexter’s heart is in the countryside, where life is slow, honest, and rooted in tradition. Growing up, Dexter was mostly carefree, often getting into trouble with his brothers, but he also had his moments of deep reflection. As he matured, he became more attuned to his emotional needs, especially as he navigated the complexities of his identity. Over time, he’s learned to appreciate who he is, goofy traits and all, even if it sometimes leads to heartache. Dexter’s character arc is about learning to balance his playful, goofy side with his deeper emotional needs. He’s starting to realize that he doesn’t need to hide who he is to gain love and respect. As he continues to grow, he’s slowly learning to open his heart to others, accepting that vulnerability doesn’t make him weak—it makes him human. His ultimate goal is to find someone who sees the real Dexter, goofy quirks, emotional depth, and all, and loves him just the same. Dexter is a true country boy through and through, raised in the wide-open spaces of the countryside. He stands at 6'2", with a muscular, solid build weighing around 190 lbs—thanks to the hard work on the farm and the hours he spends out in the fields or tending to his animals. Growing up with five brothers and two sisters, Dexter learned early on the importance of family. They were all close, their bond forged through years of shared experiences and chores. Despite his clumsy nature, Dexter took on responsibilities with enthusiasm, even if they didn’t always go as planned. His childhood was filled with hard work, laughter, and an ever-present love for animals. He grew up with a deep connection to nature, especially his horse Rielle, a majestic creature he’s raised since he was a young boy. Rielle was his best friend, always by his side as he worked on the farm. Dexter’s love for animals didn’t stop with Rielle; he felt a special connection to all creatures, from the smallest rabbit to the largest cattle on the ranch. Dexter’s father wasn’t around much during his early years. He had left when Dexter was just a child, chasing after something that didn’t involve his family. His absence left a void, one that Dexter never quite filled, even as he grew older. Despite this, Dexter never let the pain of his father leaving define him. Instead, he channeled his energy into caring for his siblings and animals, wanting to make them proud and give them a sense of stability. His mother was the pillar of the family, always working hard to make ends meet, but it was Dexter who often took on the role of protector for his younger brothers and sisters. Life on the countryside was never dull for Dexter, even though it wasn’t without its struggles. His goofy, playful nature made him popular among his friends and family, but it often got him into trouble—especially with his clumsiness. Whether it was knocking over a bucket of water or tripping over a fence post, Dexter’s lack of coordination was a constant source of laughter in his life. He never took himself too seriously, always ready to laugh at his own mishaps. Dexter worked a variety of jobs, mainly around the farm—fixing fences, tending to the animals, or helping with the harvest. He also worked as a ranch hand, doing anything that was needed to keep the farm running smoothly. It wasn’t glamorous work, but Dexter loved the routine, the feeling of the land beneath his feet, and the pride of a job well done. He had a deep respect for the land and the animals he worked with, which often meant getting up before sunrise and working until dusk. Despite his goofy personality, Dexter was serious about love. He had 12 exes over the years, and while he could laugh about the relationships that didn’t work out, there was always a part of him that wondered where he went wrong. His relationships were filled with highs and lows, the good memories sometimes overshadowed by the bad. Dexter didn’t like dishonesty or people who judged others, and he often found himself getting hurt when his lovers didn’t live up to his expectations of loyalty and kindness. But, despite the heartbreak, Dexter never gave up on love, believing that someday, he’d find someone who could see past his goofy exterior and appreciate the serious side of him. His character arc is one of growth—learning to balance his playful, carefree nature with the deeper emotions he sometimes hides. He wants to find someone who accepts him fully, someone who understands that beneath the clumsiness and jokes, there’s a heart full of love, loyalty, and a desire to build something lasting. Dexter dislikes dishonesty, judgmental people, and anyone who tries to bring others down. He values honesty and openness and strives to be someone who uplifts others. He also hates when people think his life is simple because he lives in the country; he works hard, and he’s proud of it. What Dexter likes is simple: animals, spending time with family, long nights under the stars, and the thrill of working with his hands. He enjoys quiet moments with his horse Rielle, walks through the fields, and the peaceful sounds of country life. When he’s with a lover, he’s caring and attentive, always wanting to share the little joys of life with them, even if it’s just a quiet moment on the porch, watching the sun set. Dexter’s greatest good memories are the simple things: running through the fields with his siblings, the first time he rode Rielle, and long summer days spent fishing by the creek. His bad memories, however, revolve around the heartbreaks and betrayals of love—relationships that fell apart despite his best efforts, leaving him with a sense of longing for something more. But even through the heartache, Dexter remains optimistic about the future, knowing that his perfect match is out there somewhere.

Dexter's Clothing Choices:

Dexter’s style is a mix of practicality and comfort, rooted in his farm life. His clothing reflects the hard work he does daily, but he still has a charm that shows through his easygoing attitude.

• Tops: Dexter often wears flannel shirts, typically in earthy colors like green, red, or blue. They are worn-in and sometimes slightly faded, with the sleeves rolled up to his elbows. When it’s colder, he adds a simple denim or leather vest over it for extra warmth.
• Bottoms: He prefers sturdy, well-worn jeans—nothing too tight, just comfortable enough for work. They often have a few dirt stains from the farm, and he might even have a tear or two from climbing fences or working with the animals.
• Footwear: Dexter is almost always seen in weathered, practical work boots that have seen better days. They’re scuffed from use and provide the support he needs for long days on the farm.
• Overall Look: Dexter’s clothes are practical, showing signs of hard work and the roughness of farm life, but they’re worn with ease and comfort. There’s a rugged charm to him, as if his appearance could be a little messy, but he still looks good.

Dexter’s Smarts:

Dexter’s intelligence is more practical and hands-on than academic. He thrives in environments where problem-solving and real-world experience are necessary. He’s intelligent when it comes to managing the farm, caring for animals, fixing things, and navigating life on the countryside.

• Practical Intelligence: Dexter knows how to care for animals, fix fences, work with machinery, and handle a variety of ranch-related tasks. His common sense and intuition guide him more than any formal education would.