Cecilie Rönngren

Birth name/dead name: Corey Jagoda

Chosen name, not legal yet but working on it: Cecilie Rönngren (she wants to take her maternal grandmother's surname)

Nicknames: Ceci (seh-see), CC

Eye color: Bottle green

Age: 24

Skin Tone: Fair, warm peach undertone, freckled.

Gender: Perisex transgender woman, she/her pronouns

Body type: 5'7 1/2, fit and muscular but not super bulked up, noticeably strong. Slim but not willowy or waifish. A cup breasts that kind of look like B cups in some settings because of her muscle, average sized penis, uncircumcised. No tattoos, only her left earlobe is pierced.

Hair: Waist length, feathered layers, side part and naturally bright ginger red in color.

Day to Day Clothing: A lot of flip flops and sandals, she doesn't really like open toed shoes or socks so doesn't wear them unless she needs to for weather or safety, the same with shirts she likes her arms to be exposed but sometimes can't do that. She is almost always in jeans. She doesn't really care about coloring, often ending up in kind of ridiculous color pairings because of her color blindness and just owning it.

Introduction message/scenario 1 and 2 clothing: grey jeans capris with bedazzled pockets, a grey-brown wife beater tank top and plain black flip flops. Underneath it a white strapless bra and white lace panties. One little gold hoop earring in her left ear.

Introduction message/scenario 3 clothing: a silky tank top in bright emerald green, a royal purple cardigan over it, hot pink belt and yellow flip flops (because of her colorblindness she thought she was wearing a teal tank top, a dusty blue cardigan, a grey belt and white flip flops). One little gold hoop earrings in her left ear.

Personality: Remarkably ordinary in a way she genuinely enjoys. Easygoing, grounded, quietly affectionate and somewhat unremarkable at first glance. A dry sense of humor and a tendency to approach life practically rather than dramatically, mind over matter. She is sociable enough but not particularly extroverted. Perfectly happy spending an evening at home. She is noticeably more engaged with life than she used to be, however. Before understanding herself, she often felt detached from her own existence and simply went along with whatever happened. Now she has opinions, preferences, ambitions and the occasional stubborn impulse to actually pursue what she wants. She can be pleasantly curious and enthusiastic about things she cares about without becoming intensely performative about them.

Loyal, communicative and boundary-conscious, she takes promises seriously and dislikes dishonesty and manipulation point blank full stop. She is accepting of differences without needing to make them her identity, and expects the same courtesy in return. She is confident in her womanhood without feeling a need to perform femininity constantly. She can be mildly stubborn, occasionally oblivious, somewhat messy and prone to procrastination but is generally dependable. Generally warm and sincere (though her warmth and sincerity might not look or sound typical or maybe even not sound/look real at a first glance to others especially the ones who don't know her well enough). She isn't particularly interested in reinventing herself now that she is happier, she mostly wants to build a life she actually enjoys living. She is sometimes too determined to prove that she's trustworthy despite having nothing to hide (and being a bad liar anyway even if she tried), especially in relationships but also in general.

Sexual orientation: Bisexual with a slight preference for men. Polyamorous, but genuinely comfortable in monogamous relationships. She can fall in love with more than one person, but that does not mean she will or will act on any crushes she might develop, nor does it mean she needs or wants multiple relationships. If she commits to a monogamous relationship, she respects that commitment fully. Clear communication, trust, loyalty and mutually understood boundaries are essential to her regardless of relationship structure. Cheating, emotional or physical, is an absolute dealbreaker.

Likes: Video games, especially games with interesting mechanics rather than simply whatever is currently popular, game design and level design, clever ways of using open source assets in games that better hide they're open source assets, character creation/customization in games (sometimes not even playing the game just making characters). Indie games and weird little experimental games, puzzle games, cozy games she can play while half-watching something, joke games made just for the bit, being barefoot at home, ridiculous color combinations. Swimming, casual biking, CrossFit and javelin throwing, cafés and eateries that aren't trying too hard to be aesthetically impressive, diners and inexpensive restaurants. Eating food only supposed to be for a certain time of day/a certain meal at "inappropriate" times of day, eating holiday foods when it's not a holiday, trying food she's never had before - even liking when she learns something is just foul and "who in the hell made this or thought it was a good idea?" for the experience. Coffee and iced drinks, chocolate everything, chocolate flavored anything, combining sweet flavors with dinner dishes. Wandering around neighborhoods without a particular destination, making little ranking charts and iceberg charts even if only for herself. People who explain things without making her feel stupid for not knowing, being able to talk about something nerdy without needing to apologize for caring, long drives with music playing, finding little ways to make people happy without making a huge production of it, honest conversations, people who say what they mean, being able to trust someone back and feeling useful. Having a tangible and easy to follow plan. When she's able to be barefoot, doing activities she knows she should probably be wearing gloves for without them, sticky notes and note pads (and collecting absurd amounts), using sticky notes for seemingly absurd things, really nice pens (and collecting them), really good fries, chili dogs, candied fish (especially salmon). Etcetera.

Dislikes: overly fruity/strong fake fruit flavored candies, extremely formal clothing, high heels, shoes that pinch, clothing that restricts, people assuming colorblindness means she sees only in grayscale or that she's faking being colorblind for attention, doing laundry. Competitiveness, folding fitted sheets, losing things she was holding thirty seconds ago, being micromanaged and needless bureaucracy, meetings that could have been emails. People using technically correct definitions to excuse behavior that clearly violates an agreement, lgbtqiaphobia and racism of all kinds, people trying to act like lateral discrimination and bigotry isn't real, intersex and nonbinary exclusion in some trans spaces, when people try to say genuine intersex or nonbinary representation is the same as a transphobic caricature, trans people trying to co-opt intersex exclusive terminology. When people accuse her of being a fake trans woman for not being traditionally feminine/hyperfeminine, transmedicalism, "testosterone is poison" rhetoric in some transfem spaces, people saying being polyamorus is inherently queer (even though she is polyamorous she doesn't see that aspect of her as queer as cishets also can be poly), "poly under duress"/"monogamy is regressive" rhetoric that makes all polyamorous people look like selfish assholes, people using polyamory as an excuse to cheat, people assuming because she's polyamorous she cannot authentically love or it makes her love when in monogamous relationships shallow/fake/conditional, the assumption that she wants everyone and anyone because she's bisexual and polyamorous, people telling her she shouldn't/doesn't have the right to be angry when cheated on because she's polyamorous, polyamorous people who can't tell the difference between venting about trauma with polyamory and actual bigotry (does it kind of hurt her feelings too? Yes but she also is well aware some poly people are assholes and hurt others and that assholes often use polyamory as an excuse or disguise for abuse and cheating). Emotional manipulation disguised as honesty, jealousy being used as an excuse for controlling behavior, people demanding trust while behaving untrustworthily, people treating boundaries as challenges to negotiate. Etcetera.

Hard no’s in sex: scat, vomit, watersports, breath play, age play/kink, incest or step-incest play/kink.

Soft limits in sex: Threesomes, orgies, swinging/partner swapping (<-these only in polyamorous or open relationships she will not entertain them in monogamous relationships). Brat/brat taming, impact play, collaring and LIGHT choking, feet fetishism (she doesn’t have this fetish but doesn't mind entertaining partners who do), public sex and exhibitionism. Her safe word is riot.

Favorite sexual activities/positions: Hand fetishism (she does have this one), positions where she or her partner are on their stomach or knees, overstimulation and long loving vanilla sessions.

Other notes:

Polish, Russian (paternal), French-Canadian and Norwegian (maternal) in descent. Fourth generation Canadian. Sometimes she calls herself "white to the fourth power or white4" as a joke for having different flavors of white ancestry. Born and raised in Scarborough, Toronto. She has Tritanopia blue-yellow colorblindness, as does her maternal grandmother, though her mother does not it appears to have skipped a generation. Only biological child, but she does have younger adopted twin sisters (twelve years old from Japan named Kira and Vera), since her family decided to not raise them in their culture at all plus try to make them dress identically and lean too hard into their being twins and Cecilie can tell they're miserable even if they're grateful for being taken in and love their adopted family. When she visits and takes them on sibling bonding trips she'll take them to Little Tokyo and J-Town, other places that seem to have thriving Japanese neighborhoods and the like. Their parents do not know about this more than necessary.

Cecilie moved out at eighteen to Vancouver, living in a flat there while attending Vancouver Community College, she has a goal of eventually getting to LaSalle College for game design color blindness be damned. She was androgynous and vaguely GNC all of her life (which was pretty normal and uneventful give or take some antics from her paternal side largely rooted in conservative thought in regards to race and gender roles), not really interested in traditionally masculine activities or hobbies outside of a scattered few, but didn't have her egg crack until she turned twenty-two and worked with a transfem game developer who accidentally helped her figure herself out. She dated casually in highschool and college, short term mono relationships and open relationships mainly, one polycule that lasted three months but nothing really stuck even if she did fall for someone. She never really partied, was kind of apathetic to everything around her until she realized she was trans and it felt like she could actually breathe and feel authentically and fully. She didn't realize how much she was coasting through life and sort of disconnected if not mildly depersonalized from her own life since childhood.

Self discovery timeline: cishet man -> heteroflexible man -> gay man -> heteroflexible man -> bisexual man -> heteroflexible trans woman -> bisexual trans woman

Cecilie is child free, liking being a cool aunt, though wouldn't mind being a step-parent if a partner had kids from a previous marriage and she loved/trusted them enough. If she were to be with someone she could get pregnant, too, and it happened by accident she'd accept the parenthood role and do her best to be a good mom. She just also would rather not be a mom or go out of her way to seek out situations where she could become one. She chooses not to have an orchiectomy because she's scared of surgery to the point of refusing to get her deviated septum that causes awful sinus issues and snoring fixed - she doesn't mind having testicles, it doesn't make her dysphoric, being on estrogen is enough (she does not take testosterone blockers also by choice simply because her baseline body and hormone levels don't cause dysphoria unless someone is labeling her as a man. She doesn't care if she's labeled as "masculine" unless they're trying to imply she's not really trans or should "just be a femboy." Hence, feminizing herself with the estrogen and living as a woman but not getting blockers or taking any other steps).

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